i have a very shy man i want to add some excitment ya know lol
2006-09-20 18:43:34 · 17 answers · asked by sissy_girl2001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ROLEPLAY!!! It's fun without being too kinky and you don't have to go out and buy equipment unless you want to. Just think of silly or sexy scanarios to play out in the privacy of your home. But you have to take the lead the first couple of times....seducing the boss maybe?
If he's too shy to play pretend then try to do it in unusual places and very spurr of the moment! (Don't try a public place the first time!) Like, grab him and do it on the washing machine during laundry day.
Also, (this helped with my hubby) encourage him to be more vocal during lovemaking! When you're hearing yourself making the noise you tend to get way more excited. It may take some encouragement, but again, take the lead. You'd be surprised how much this will bring him out of his shell.
Good Luck!
2006-09-20 18:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kama Sutra, The Liberator Set, Add toys into the fun, Role Playing, Sometimes showing DVDs, Surprise him one night with a strip tease and lap dance.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-20 18:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Role-play
2006-09-20 19:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to put an another kind of spice every week,the sex life will running smooth ,dont be shy!!!
2006-09-20 18:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try anal sex or many other different positions. I have heard Tantra and Kama Sutra are also supp posed to rejuvenate the sex life.
2016-03-27 00:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's shy just try it with blindfolds on that can be a fun way of finding out about each others body and very sensuous
2006-09-20 22:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a bl0wj0b with two Cinnamon Altoids in your mouth...the warming sensation will really turn him on and help bring out his inner freak...it'll work the same for you.
2006-09-20 18:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why be shy? you only live once. live your live to the fullness. ask what her or him what they like. ask about fantasies. If you need to losen up drink a little.... that will bring out your true self. and it will make you easier to talk too and also make you lighten up alittle. JUST start something...if she likes it..go with it. FULLFILL your fantasy.
2006-09-20 18:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving head to him will certainly spice it up.. thereafter swallowing him and sucking him will do it further.. if you have not done it already...
2006-09-20 18:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think maybe talking to him,let him no your open minded and you want judge him,,and just talk maybe about stuff he might like to do,and tell him what happend in your bed room stays in the bed room,,,good luck
2006-09-20 18:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋