Okay i met this gurl about a week ago.. and i got her phone number and have been getting to know her really good.. yesterday we went out to lunch and it even went better.. when we were walking out she was walkin so close to me ad i thought it was a good sign that she is interested.. actually i knew we both were interested in each other all along.. but when i dropped her back to her car i forggot to give her a hug.. I KNOW BAD.. okay today i see her in the english lab.. i go to talk to her she was cool.. she told me about her friends in mexico and stuff.. but she was a little different.. she would not stare into my eyes as long and she would be quick to look away.. i called her at 8 and she forwarded my call to the voicemail after 2 rings.. lol.. i know she's not working and she was even hinting to kick it today.. :(... so i think it is obvious to say that she is playin hard to get and if not please tell me... so what would be the best way to beat her at her own game and win her heart?
2006-09-20 18:33:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You both are playing love games with each-other. You forgot to give her a hug/kiss while leaving her in the car...she wouldn't have minded that...girls prefer patient customers.
In the lab....she was different, and was not looking direct into your eyes...that's natural...a lab is not the place to do this staring thing. She forwarded your call on the voice mail...she may be willing to listen to you heart...without the compulsion of actually replying you directly.
Have heart, have patience, you're not playing well, keep giving her clues, she too is giving you some...and finally you'll reach the prize.
2006-09-20 18:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by sameer s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you try saying "Hey Im interested in pursuing something more than a friendship with you how do you feel about that? If she says shes not sure thats a No. you say ok no pressure friends are fine. and move on if she says yes im interested too. then you work on her heart. why spend all the time agonizing or wondering if she does or doesnt no need to waste time on one girl when there is a whole world full of others
2006-09-21 01:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by xx4real4lifexx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all be real from the very start..you like her and just take it slow no need to have to hurry up a relationship..and if she didn't answer she could of been on another phone call no big deal...you seen to analyze every step don't do that...ask her out..and call her the more attention you give her she will know your interested and if she is not interested and ignores you leave her alone and move on...
2006-09-21 01:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mate if found out this much......
YOU CANT BEAT THEM!!!
better roll with the punches and hope she is serious bout you's!!!
dont try to play a game cause i telling you out of experience that it will back fire and you be there all by yourself and the only date you will have is Mrs. Palmer and her 5 daughters!!!
2006-09-21 01:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by darknightmare01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why play games get straight to the source
2006-09-21 01:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋