He's 22, I'm 16. He loves me and he wants to be with me but we never see eachother so we broke up. I love him, I have a choice between him and two other 16 year olds, but I love him. My dad say "no!", my heart say "yes!" but what can I do??! I can't forget about him, it's too hard.
2006-09-20 18:24:07 · 31 answers · asked by Baby Tearz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the age difference won't matter as time passes by. But otherwise try going out with guys your own age, highschool relationships rarely last forever anyways so just have fun. You'll forget the guy if you get into another relationship
2006-09-20 18:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by JO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you are in love and shouldn't be. The first love is always the greatest. The hardest to move on. You feel like he is the only man you could ever love. You will fall for other guys.
I do not know why you cant see each other. Is it because he cant or because of your dad?? The man is 22 you should be dating guys your age. How horrible to be in love broken hearted at such a young age. You don't need to be in love like this so soon. I know too late since you have fallen so hard.
It is illegal for him to be with you, even to kiss you. I am sorry but your father is right, He knows that this relationship can only end badly. He is 22 it isn't like he is going to marry you in two years. You don't need to be married that young anyway.
God Bless you and I pray that you find the strength to move on.
Date some other boys. I know it isn't the same but maybe it will help a little. I fell in love very young too. I don't wish it on anyone. Sorry sweetie I do know how you feel. But I promise love does come around again.
2006-09-21 01:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by galbee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your father. Whether you know it or not you are still growing up and still have a lot of maturing to do. Realistically any 22 year old who dates a 16 year old is either immature himself or likes little girls (wierdo). You still have to experience high school, dances, homecomings, etc. Enjoy the moment with people your own age. Let your 22 year old friend grow up and start hanging around people his own age. And don't say love. Everyone dates a lot of people while they're teenagers, don't build these relationships into something bigger than they are. You can like people while you're a teenager, but save the word love for when you're a little older and better able to understand fully what that word means. It'll save you a lot of heartaches!!!
2006-09-21 01:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WTH IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE. For the love of Christ you're 16, he's old enough to drink, buy beer and get wasted legally, you aren't even old enough to have sex (unless you live in a state with consent laws, but that only applies to a relationship between 16 and 18 year olds) You don't love him, you are infatuated with him, GET IT IN YOUR THICK SKULL *smack smack smack smack* He wants you for one of two reasons, he wants you to get his jollies on, or he loves you, either way, WAIT UNTIL YOU'RE 18, he's a pervert, a sick and twisted man who will do nothing but leave you hurt and probably broken. Just walk away from him. A relationship like that is bad, you are both in a different world, you're still in high school, your eyes barely open, your father has some sense, listen to him. This boy will lead to nothing but trouble. If you get pregnant your entire childhood is GONE. Even if there is no sex involved, it's not good because you two are at different points in your life. Leave and tell him to go away, because you are too young for him, he needs to find a damn 20 year old...
2006-09-21 01:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by Kamikaze 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i REALLY AGREE with the internauts "Teacher", "mickey","JO" and the others.
you're just TOO young and most of all you love a man that you never saw
Doesn't this seem strange to you?
you should listen your dad!
you are much thing to learn about love and you have time for it, find a 16 years old who has the same experience as your self and the same interest
Hoping that you will take the right choice!
2006-09-21 01:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by glooby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there,
I'm in a similar situation. I'm a 16 yr old female and the person I, for lack of a better word, like, is 21. I care for him, and he cares for me. Our intention is/was to marry, but Mum doesn't completely approve. Mum won't say 'No!' if I persuade her, but I've decided to take my Mum's advice. She's been through a lot and has years of experience. Mums know best.
Back to you. Is your intention to marry him, or is this just a temporary thing? And why does your Father disapprove? Does he dislike something about him? Look deeper into the situation - there's usually more than the eye can see ...
2006-09-21 01:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by nemo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your dad. You have another choice and that is to enjoy being 16 without the stress of a boyfriend. Focus on school and getting your education and leave those boys alone. There will be plenty of time for all that later.
2006-09-21 01:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm,well you better make sure he really LOVES you and not just saying that to rack up a score on the old scoreboard. First,not sure where your from,but it might be illegal. But if your still wanting to go through with it, no one can really stop you. I can't tell you what to do, no one can just advise you. I would take some time to really think about it. Does this guy really truly love you and not leave you for another girl a few months later? is it just for fun for him? are you willing to do whatever it takes to make you happy not just him? this is one of those things that are very iffy, and all I can say is good luck, hopes thigns work for the best...just watch out
2006-09-21 01:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by divisionbell121979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girlie, if he is 22 and you are 16 then this guy knows what to say to make you feel very strongly about him! This guy has issues. You are only 16 honey and you have a long life ahead of you. This guy will be a thing of the past if you want him to be. If you do not want him to be in your past he may very well destroy your future!!!
2006-09-21 02:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by queenonymphs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insensitive as it sounds, relationships are meant to terminate unless you plan to move on to marriage. What goes up must come down. However, the bonds you make with your family and your friends can last a lifetime, as well as the scars you acquire during your childhood. Is it really logical to ruin the things that matter so you can meet up with a guy for a few good times?
2006-09-21 01:29:26 · answer #10 · answered by ktownfarmboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋