when my bf and i hooked up it only took me a week to say that i loved him we broke up and now he says he loves me, but he doesn't wanna be with me until i turn 18 and i still love him what should i do?
2006-09-20 18:22:52 · 16 answers · asked by Samantha J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would wait for him...I would also never tell someone after a week i loved him either...Sometimes things are said to fast and they scare people away, you need more than a week to tell someone those big words and mean it....
2006-09-20 18:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait til you are 18. He has morals and doesn't want to get in trouble with the law. Some people have more difficulties to say I love you then others. Don't worry and hang in there.
2006-09-20 18:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn 18 and go back out with him.
2006-09-20 18:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long will it be until you turn 18?
2006-09-20 18:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by wyldberry880 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dear, you didn't say how old you are, but I do understand that if your boyfriend is over 18, he is at another stage in his life than you are currently at. Maybe he is trying to be good to you by not keeping you tied to one guy while you are still in high-school. Really, he must love you if he is thinking of your best interest.
2006-09-20 18:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by iamcolleen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh...it's creepy when children say "I love you" to each other. Keep those words sacred until you actually reach an age where you're pretty sure you love them, otherwise those words will be just as hollow as heaven and hell are to some...just do yourself a favor and use protection. I may sound like an ***, but I do a thankless job...
2006-09-20 18:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by Kamikaze 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah i wouldnt worry bout it. guys never say it first. but you said it kinda soon. maybe you scared him off. im guessing that he is older then you? he sounds like an ok guy cos he probably said what he said cos he doesnt want to take advantage of you. younger girls fall really fast for older guys and its easy for the older guy to take advantage of the girl, cos they know more about stuff. how long till you turn 18? tell him that you really want to be with if you cant wait, and if he really loves you, age shouldnt matter. goodluck
2006-09-20 18:28:23 · answer #7 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait
2006-09-20 18:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by clueless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn 18 as soon as possible or wait for the time to do that
2006-09-20 18:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by tushar g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad form to tell a guy you love him after only a week. Only do that if you want to scare the guy off.
2006-09-20 18:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋