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we broke up & after 2 months started talking again. We met for a night out, and two days later, he told me that he never loved me, and wished he never met me. Help!!

2006-09-20 18:13:05 · 33 answers · asked by SJS 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

33 answers

It means it's time to move on. Sorry

2006-09-20 18:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by Izzy 5 · 0 0

Well, seems he's still resentful about something. Maybe he wanted to get close with you again to be able to get "revenge" for breaking up with him or for doing something to him in the past. That, or he was just using you for a good time and didn't really care about you. Either way, just let him go and forget him. Maybe the truth is *you* would have been better off not having met him.

(If you guys were friendly and there is no resentment, then maybe he just got scared of getting too close to you again and instead of letting things go further he decided to break it off so harshly. That's another possibility)

2006-09-20 18:18:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just what he said.

Sometimes it takes people a while to get a direct hint when they think they love someone and can't quite get why the other person doesn't feel the same. You know you're a good person, why can't you get the love of the person you want? 'Cos the *other* person doesn't want it, that's why... !

And when that happens, be the smart one and walk away with dignity and with your head held high. By sticking around and asking "why", you're only giving him more reasons to abuse and mistreat you and don't you deserve better than that?

2006-09-20 18:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by coorissee 5 · 0 0

Ouch. Gosh, well, unless you are an absolute nutcase girlfriend, I don't know how anybody could say that to their ex. Is this guy really over you, or is he coping by taking his anger out on you in frustration because you've called it quits? I say wait to swallow his words and his actions. If he comes back, he's a hypocrite.

2006-09-20 18:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by bansri47 4 · 0 0

I'm guessing you broke it off.
If I'm wrong sorry.

The reason I say that is because he probably still has feelings for you.
He says that because, if you broke up with him, you hurt him inside.

If you didn't then I can't help you on it.

2006-09-20 18:17:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sounds like sex with the ex and that he wanted a way to hurt you. More than likely he was hurt too and is too immature to admit it.

If he really never did care about you then thank your lucky stars that you didn't spend another day with him before you found out what a jerk he is.

Either way it sounds like you are better off without him.

2006-09-20 18:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by spiderspell 3 · 1 0

Sounds like he is in love with the idea of you being a virgin and you can just believe that the guy friends that he is introducing you to knows that you are a virgin. You are doing well to not give in to him. He will not like it but he will respect you and if the two of you break up because of sex, on down the line you will be labeled as "the one that got away". The emotions that he is displaying is a game to make you feel guilty about what you are doing. If you do have sex with him he will leave you anyway because the game will be over.

2016-03-17 23:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Its his own little way of saying you both do not have a future together. Its time for you to move forward without him not even in friendship.

Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel

2006-09-20 18:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0 0

Yeah, I agree with everyone else on here, he was being honest,painfully at that, but he just told you he never wanted to be with you in the first place. Yeah it hurts like hell, and the way he put it was pretty damn mean, but you know how he feels. Nurse the wound and move on, you can find someone more worth your time and wants to be with you....good luck and remember it only hurts for awhile

2006-09-20 18:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by divisionbell121979 2 · 0 0

Did you sleep with him on that night out?

I think he probably wanted to see if he could still have you.. Sounds mean, but truthful... Unfortunately, it is a lose/ lose situation for you either way you look at it.

Keep you head up, demand respect! Always

2006-09-20 18:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by and,or,nand,nor 6 · 0 0

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