This man is a pathological liar. he lies almost about everything about him. He likes me but I find him sicko. I stay away from him, but he won't stop bugging me. he calls me, text-messaging, email, sending me flowers, whatever ways to show his love.
my bf is currently away on his business trip to London. he'll be there for 2-3 mos.
what should I do? I’ve told him I have a bf and love only him!
he was like 'okay, I know. I just want to love u and that's it!"
2006-09-20 18:07:24 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he's taking this opportunity while my bf's away. he really pisses me off!
2006-09-20 18:14:33 · update #1
Tell him in no uncertain terms "stay away from me" and if he doesn't, get a restraining order.
2006-09-20 18:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by hoodoowoman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is important to not accept any of his gifts. You may have to block his number from calling or texting you. He should start getting the message.
Use caution, this guy sounds nuts. park in well lit areas, make sure you call someone before you leave to go some place and make sure you tell someone when to expect you home.
If he continues to stalk you contact the police.
2006-09-21 01:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hai,
He must be maniac,so try to avoid.Try changing ur phone number if he is disturbing you a lot through phone & sms.Email try to delete ,dont read.coz the more you read ,you will get disturbed very badly.Try to inform to your parents or close friends and make sure you inform about this guy behaviour to your boy friend so he will not misunderstand you.To this guy you warn him & tell if he disturbs you like this he will give a complaint to the Police,i thnk he will stop bugging you.
2006-09-21 01:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by s s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did he get your email, phone number, etc.? File a restraining order. If you don't want it to go that far, change your phone number. At least tell your boyfriend about this guy, so he doesn't think you are or were cheating on him. Otherwise, tell him you don't like flowers; you like expensive jewelry, nice cars and money.
2006-09-21 01:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by Johhny Drama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must return his gifts and don't accept any further attempts
don't talk to him anymore, stay away from him
i would say the same thing that "KoZ aka Mr 1000" answer, you should tell to your boyfriend about him
if he doesn't stop, call the cops because for him, this little game could become a kind of sexual harassment
be careful and good luck!
2006-09-21 01:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by glooby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to let him know that u don't like him. If u just run away from him, he may misunderstand that he still has the chance and u will give up in the end.
Just tell him that u find him SICKO and dislike him. Let him know that he has no chance. I believe he will give up
2006-09-21 03:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YIKES!! Sounds like a stalker to me my dear. If this guy isn't gettin the hint now, he could make another move that may cause some danger to you. He's crossing a line. If I were you I would call the Police. This is big time harassment. Good Luck!
2006-09-21 01:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by nikki_butterfly777 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you told your boyfriend about him?
If not you really should.
Be upfront with the guy and tell him that if he doesn't stop harassing you, and yes that is harassment, that you will file a restraining order on him.
So the next time he calls you or does anything to that effect, he will be locked up.
Good Luck
I Wish You The Best
2006-09-21 01:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would guess neutering is out of the question.
Send the flowers back.
And put a block on his text messages, e-mails, and phone calls.
2006-09-21 01:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight out, you dont and never will have the same feelings. And say it to him straight out, but in a public place incase the weirdo gets physical. Good luck love!
2006-09-21 01:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by bks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just cut him off. dont even respond to him. totally ignore him. when you get his stuff, dont read it. delete or bin it straight away. if he persists. respond to a txt or email saying you will call the police cos of him harassing you. if you dont want to do that. let your boyfriend give him a call. im sure he will sort him out. i know i would
2006-09-21 01:12:55 · answer #11 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋