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Okay i met this gurl about a week ago.. and i got her phone number and have been getting to know her really good.. yesterday we went out to lunch and it even went better.. when we were walking out she was walkin so close to me ad i thought it was a good sign that she is interested.. actually i knew we both were interested in each other all along.. but when i dropped her back to her car i forggot to give her a hug.. I KNOW BAD.. okay today i see her in the english lab.. i go to talk to her she was cool.. she told me about her friends in mexico and stuff.. but she was a little different.. she would not stare into my eyes as long and she would be quick to look away.. i called her at 8 and she forwarded my call to the voicemail after 2 rings.. lol.. i know she's not working and she was even hinting to kick it today.. :(... so i think it is obvious to say that she is playin hard to get and if not please tell me... so what would be the best way to beat her at her own game and win her heart?

2006-09-20 18:02:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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You sound clingy fool...get a hold of yourself. She may be just giving you the cold shoulder. That stuff happens, and if you keep pursuing her, she'll probably lay it out flat. I'd suggest you slow it down, but you should try and be someone's friend before you get into a relationship man...because relationships don't pop out of nothingness, gotta build on 'em. Slow down, take your time, talk to her less, perhaps show a little disinterest. Take that advice only if you don't think you have any other way. I'm not a psychologist or anything, so my advice may suck...

2006-09-20 18:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by Kamikaze 3 · 0 0

each girl is different on how she wants you to do stuff like retroperspectives (applied perseptions)=of things that have already gone by.(your yesterday feeling still dominate your wishes) taking her for granted may be difficult for her to accept,(most any of this stuff can make a mountain out of a mole hill) and most girls don't like it at all when the guys try to pick up where they left off. too fast.especially if it's done in front of other people and it has ramifications of its own, my girl like 20 years old and for a year and a half,like ground hog day=it like day one each time we meet and it's hard on me and has a ton of disadvantages so you gotta figure confidence in the face of adversity will get you points, nothing to do with what you did, it has to do with what you can do now in real time, don't play on any kind of past achievements with her. see if that makes her day. then you have to learn how expectations are either good in the ability to have and easy time or a hard time,what's best for you, woman all love to see you sweat it out. they may not know alot in a new relationship that's thrown at them,but their going to do it with additude so get use to it or overlook it. don't look to give her a guilt trip if she doesn't play it your way, time heals all wounds,and in a love life=the saying gets new life=time wounds all heels, so if your a fast mover she may not want that and will be a regulator and that's time to move on. because what ever you do will have consequinces that will be minipulated to her retroperspectives=remember when i started this piece was so that you didn't use the retroperspectives of you feeling that were mounting for her and here we have gone full circle till she is the one assembling retroperspectives, so try to stay in real time so that what goes and comes around and gets better. forcing moderation early save mistakes later.you may not want to get to her heart if shes sycopathic that's alot like leading a bull around with a rope and a ring in it nose, could end up dangerous at both ends.

2006-09-21 01:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by bev 5 · 0 0

IS IT A GAME: ? I dont think just because you had forgotten to give her a hug on the 1st. nite out is going to make her wanting no more with you.... next thing i would do is write her a lovly letter, maybe have roses sent to her, but if it all comes back then its her GAME. move on.... GOODLUCK....

2006-09-21 01:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by mike_m50501 2 · 0 0

Plan, be yourself and have a lead she can follow, a decisive direction. If she is not the one you will be the better man.

2006-09-21 01:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by gotmine 1 · 0 0

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