hey guys, if a girl puts out on the 1st date, is it also okay for her to call you first or would you think that too full on / clingy??
just wondering
2006-09-20 17:46:23 · 18 answers · asked by ash1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i dont usually do that the 1st date but i got kinda drunk (stupidly) but i really like him, its a few days later tho so maybe he woulda called by now if he wanted more than sex ....hmm
2006-09-20 18:10:54 · update #1
If he DOES think that's too clingy, you need to know now. You don't need to waste time with a jerk like that.
By the way, you didn't "sell yourself" any more that the guy did.
2006-09-20 17:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by mollyneville 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on if you know him well or not...personally i would not have sex with a girl that i wouldnt want to call me or that i wouldnt want to call. I would not ruin a potential relationship by having sex on a first date... or have a one night stand, its stupid and playerish, i hate players and the game. So if you think he really liked you and you really like him and you werent just a piece of *** sure call him but i dont suggest putting out everytiem you guys are together becuae you will turn into a bootycall for him and thats bad too!
2006-09-20 18:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by stiffler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell not figure out know if you need to find a new **** buddy lol / j.k. just call dont be a whiner or go into a oh my god I cant beleive I did that find out if hes a man and will treat you as a lady " dont let the guy think your the slut hell he banged you on the first date as well
2006-09-20 18:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in sex on a first date, but i say if you really like him, its absolutely OK. Then you will know if he really likes you too! if he answers and you get along then its alright. If he doesn't welcome the call or ignores your calls then you need to look elsewhere cause he isn't interested in you in the first place! I personally would be happy to recieve that call, because i wouldn't have been intimate with you if i hadn't really cared about you. I guess i am a dying breed, cause I still believe in LOVE. thanks, J PS-good luck
2006-09-20 17:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you were asking the guys this question, BUT...Instead of calling I sent a balloon bouquet to his work with a "thank you" mylar balloon and about 9 latex balloons. On the card I said " Thank you! Hope to see you soon" With my phone number. Now, it is 15 years later, we are happily married with 2 boys (he obviously called me that night). We still talk about what I did. He said he would have never called if it was not for what I did. If you like him, get creative!! Good Luck!!
2006-09-20 17:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by naughty_mattress_monkey 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-18 14:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by cordell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no harm - if he's interested to see you again, i'm sure he'll follow-up. If he makes excuses for not being able to meet you, then he's most likely not interested in seeing you again
What are you hoping will happen, by you calling him the morning after?
2006-09-20 18:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by gipsy_queen99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it would be perfectly fine to call the man after sex. I don't think I would mind if you called after sex. I would feel better about how I did and how much she likes me.
2006-09-20 17:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by ineedanswers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes definitely go for it. take charge. however im gonna point out a few things for you. chances are he will think that you are calling him cos you wanna get naked again. also cos you got naked on the first date, he may see you as easy. guys dont really wanna date girls that are easy. they just wanna sleep with them. if you really like him, hold off on the naked fun. however if thats what you wnat, go for it. your in charge remember?
2006-09-20 17:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can call but if he had no intentions of calling you don't be surprised when he doesn't answer.
2006-09-20 17:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋