Today, I found out that this guy likes me. I'm not sure if he does cause this girl told me and I'm not sure if I can trust her.What should I do? Should I just go up to him and say "do you like me?" and if he says yes, then what? Do I just walk away? Help!!
P.S I barely even know him and I have only seen him twice.
2006-09-20 17:35:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure, go up to him. What is he going to do laugh? Let him laugh, then be like, oh dam I was joking. I got ya huh? Laugh then walk away. If he doesnt laugh and he says yeah he likes you, then go with the flow, talk to him. Why walk away from someone who could be THE ONE?! My moto is you only live once, try everything, if you dont like something dont do it again. So if you have something to say to this guy, TELL HIM... if he doesnt like you, then he doesnt like you. No biggie, more fish in the sea. Best Wishes
2006-09-20 17:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by amberpurkey2003 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, just dont go up to him and ask him. So okay you dont really know him thats okay. Chill out! So maybe you need to figure out a way to spend more time with him get to know him. Talking to a guy.....They always give it away if they like you are not. Read his movement and body it will tell all...and watch those eyes. Do you stay with you or do they float around. And for sure if you cant trust the girl heck maybe she wants him and she wants you to look like the fool. Girls are DIRTY! Talk to his friends see if they know anything. Once you have spent some time witht the guy then you can ask him.
2006-09-20 18:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by tx_mailgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think u should go up to him and ask him because if the girl who told you he likes you is lying or exaggarating u will make a fool of your self. Is he the kind of guy u could see your self with?? If so, u should approach him and let him know in a subtle way. If not sure then mayb get to know him and take it from there. Another thing is talk to the girl and try to determine weather or not she is telling the truth. Deep down in your heart u know what feels right, so listen to ur insticts and follow them, they're usually right!! Good luck with what ever happens
2006-09-20 17:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't put it so crudely please!! walk up to him, slowly, calmly, gently and ask him how he feels about you. but make sure it is not the first question you ask him. your first questions should be introducing yourself, asking him about him--who he is, where he comes from, etc.., about how his work is coming along, and how is his bike? or some such polite conversation. (maybe discuss a tv show or something with him).
be prepared for the worst. however, in a fluke of a chance he says he thinks u r nice or he likes you, leave the rest of the conversation to him. he'll decide on what do to and what not to do. you relax. you like him and he likes you. wait for time, fate and destiny to do the rest of the work.
but yes u r right, in the case of emotions, never trust a mediator or third person.
2006-09-20 18:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by slmanl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is this one girl who tell you what you should ask is can i trust her? Go and introduce yourself to the guy and by his action you will know if he like you. Like how you only seen him twice get to know him or better still find people who know him maybe they can second the information the girl had given you. If you go up to him and he said yes he like you. Get to know him first before jumping into a relationship after you know him then you will know what to do.
2006-09-21 13:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by breast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sigh...I hate these kinds of questions because I think you kids are just to "hot and heavy" these days with the "love" stuff.
If he likes you he will get the courage to speak to you. Talk to him and be open, he will make a move if he really wants to. If he says yes then of course you dont walk away, just ask about going to a movie.
Oh and by the way, have you asked yourself if you really like him? If so then go flirt silly.
=D
2006-09-21 13:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't ask him if he likes you right away. Just see if he makes a move then that probly means he likes you. Always let the dude make the first move.
2006-09-20 17:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by energens 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're an attractive girl, then go talk to him. If you're not that good looking and you've only seen him a few times then chances are she's lying.
2006-09-21 13:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by Fish Boy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just wait... no you do not walk up to him and ask him...
Make yourself more noticeable to him, smile at him when you see him, and say hello.... before you know it you will both be talking to each other!!
2006-09-20 18:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best solution to this, is to be patient.Wait for his reaction.How he behaves towards you.Is he attracting your attention when he is with his friends or doing something? Look out for all these faccts.
2006-09-20 18:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋