do you think its in my best interest to keep talking to my ex like nothing has happened? do you think that will make it harder for me to get on with things? has anyone else been through this??
2006-09-20 17:25:34 · 12 answers · asked by youdontknowme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not a bad idea, to tell you the truth. In high school relationships usually do not last "forever". You have made a wonderful friend and you should keep it that way as long as you do not have any feelings for him any longer. If you do, I would step back for a little while and then step forward toward a new kind of friendship. It is still a "relationship", but a very different one. Continue enjoying him, but in a different way. Good Luck to you! LGK
2006-09-20 17:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by lovetofly46 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should tell him how you feel. Don’t feel scare if he would turn you down. If you're too shy to approach him, what i did last time is that i call my secret admire. Sometime i wrote letter and e-mail. But i can say, talk to him in person sure has the edge and more advantage.
Love is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. and no rush. Boys look at 2 things, prettiness and good personality. You know what pretty is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve.
All the best to u.
2006-09-21 00:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I do think it will makes matter harder and your sending him signals that says I am not over you. So he feeling good but your feeling betrayed and everything else. In order for you to move on you have to let him go and act like he didn't matter to you so he can know how it feels. Good luck and be strong.
2006-09-21 00:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by randrnorman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to let go of the past. If later you want to try to be friends with them, then give it a try. But right now you should put some space between you two. It will makes things easier for the both of you.
2006-09-21 00:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by Joellen S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Parting friends is never bad. It will only be bad if you expect things to redevelop. If this is the case keep some distance until you start dating someone else. then pick up the friendship
2006-09-21 00:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by Paige M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes time for your heart to heal. But once it has a friendship between the two of you will only make you a stronger person.
2006-09-21 00:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by jelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO , IT NOT A GOOD IDEAS AT ALL. YOU AND HE ARE NOT
TOGETHER, SO BOTH OF YOU NEED TO MOVE ON, AND
YES IT WILL BE LOT HARDER FOR YOU IF YOU DONT
'JUST LEAVE IT ALONG. HE AND EX FOR A REASON. AND'HE
SHOULD STAY A EX.
2006-09-21 00:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can still be friends with your ex as long as you both know the boundaries of friendship.
2006-09-21 00:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are broken up and aren't getting back together you are putting yourself at more risk when he dates someone else. Perhaps it's best to distance yourself some.
2006-09-21 00:28:44 · answer #9 · answered by Sara 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life. He's an EX for a reason right?
2006-09-21 00:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by Honz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋