you found out your boyfriend is a complete alcoholic/drunk when you went on a camping trip with him and he drank 30 beers and a 1/4 of vodka and tryed getting you to have sex with him in front of his friends and then wanted to "pass you around" and take turns with all the guys. Then he starts calling you a b*tch and a whore everytime he refers to you. He shits all over the tent and pukes all over you and then stumbles around and gets lost in the woods and passes out in a creek. Then he has to be airlifted to a hosbital and almost dies from alcohol poisoning and taking too much vicodin.
All on valentines day.
2006-09-20 17:21:01 · 19 answers · asked by TT M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is just a what if situation lol
2006-09-20 17:31:22 · update #1
first of all i wouldn't be in a relationship like that second i'd dump his sorry *** if i ever was and third i wouldn't have called an ambulance in this first place....-_-
2006-09-20 17:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by mel w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing I would do is dump the jerk. This person apparently has no self esteem and no respect for you...It sounds as though he needs some help. If this guy drinks like this a lot, get rid of him...On the other hand if you have known him for a long time and this is an isolated incident, tell him that this is not and never will be acceptable behavior. You deserve more than to be passed around like some cheap "chippie". Please think very seriously about this. If you are planning a long term commitment, your life will be a very miserable and lonely one...GOOD LUCK
2006-09-20 17:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I really really hope that is not a personal experience. I feel really bad for you. Honestly I would dump him and never talk to him again. The sex thing is understandable and can be laughed off and worked through depending on the woman, but calling her degrading names shows what he really thinks of her. Even drunk, that just shows he doesnt respect women. The waste and vomit incident as well as the accident are all just REALLY bad drinking experiences!!!! Easy to move past. If this is something you did, I would grovel. I think this is a lesson you are meant to learn. Maybe it is time to stop drinking and seek help with alcoholism.
2006-09-20 17:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by Peach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds to me like you need to get a new boyfriend. Either he really wanted to die, or he just didnt know what he was doing. Vicodin is a serious sign of drug abuse, my suggestion, Counceling. Too much alcohol is a sign for "help me" take him to AA. Ask him if he needs help. The worse you can do is ask. Just remember you cant help someone who doesnt want to be helped. Be patient
2006-09-20 17:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by amberpurkey2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be very hard to forgive, I think he should give up the drink and concentrate on his relationship,do something nice for the weekend to make it up to his girl, depending on the history of the relationship i might of given him a second chance.
2006-09-20 17:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by The girl from Oz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would I do in a situation like that? I'll leave him right then and there. But honestly, I want to hit his head with a bottle.
2006-09-20 17:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump him and neva talk to him eva again because know one deserves to be treated like that on valentine's day
2006-09-20 17:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think every woman on here is looking for a guy like you have, you had better hold on to him.
2006-09-20 17:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone.He doesnt want to see the sun rise again-ever!Slow motion suicide.He can decide what he wants to do with his life probably its meaningless coz he's wasting it.
2006-09-20 17:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by karatekiddo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT WOULD BE TIME TO GET A NEW BOYFRIEND. THIS ONE
HAS SOME SERIOUS ISSUES THAT HE NEED TO GET
A HOLD ON. HE NEED SOME SERUOUS HELP WITH HIS
PROBLEMS AND DISRESPECT YOU AND DOING SOME
OF THE THINGS THAT HE DID. I WOULD LET HIM KNOW
YOU GET SOME HELP ARE I DONE..
2006-09-20 17:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋