For the first time in my life I've fallen in love, with this 19 year old bombshell. Words cant even describe how hot this girl is, not only that but she has the brains to go with the looks. I consider my self an average Joe, but I've never had problems meeting girls. Lately I've been more than lucky with girls, but this all started right after I began a relationship with this love. For example, just last weekend I was at a club with some friends, and the hottest girl in the club pinched me in the *** and pulled me off the bar. Then she told me that she was bored and wanted to take the party back to her apartment. This kind of thing never happens to a guy like me, so I took the once in a life time offer. Today I met another girl just as fine as the hottie in the club. I got her number and just by the way we talked I know I can get into her pants. I'm aware that I'll never be able to find another girl like my girl. So why am I cheating? Is cheating a natural function of a male?
2006-09-20 17:08:12 · 20 answers · asked by Fercho21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is a positive vibe youve developed in yourself. Its self esteem after the first love of yours. Stick with her dude if shes the best...if she doesnt work out others will be there. Its all about attitude and self confidence and youre learning it now...congrats man, and best of luck. Use it wisely and never abuse it.
2006-09-20 17:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by Johnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys tend to confuse love with bein hard up. You can be in love with your girlfriend but think the neigbors a bombshell. But because you love your gal you wouldnt cheat. For example I dont think my fiance is the biggest bombshell but I love him so much that if Trace Atkins walked through the door (fat chance ha ha I know) I wouldnt go there. Love stems from friend ship and a deeper understanding of one another. Men tend to cheat because one they feel its their right, they are not in love, or they havent found a good magazine. You want variaty? try the car, the kitchen, the livingroom or even the closet. Good luck
2006-09-20 17:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dawg, you are a dog! Congratulations! Look man, you are a man! What can I say. If you are not serious about the main squeeze, i.e., you are not planning to walk down the aisle anytime soon (which you shouldn't be thinking about until you are 35), then what the problem is? Do you! Have fun. Date alot of chicks just be respectful to all women. Be confident, respectful and mysterious. Chicks love that. You are not going to marry the girl you are with anyway - trust me - because you are going to get busted sooner or later. Chicks can smell that stuff - in fact, she probably already has figured you out! I hate to break this news flash to you but when it comes to relationships, women are light years ahead of men. Because a good woman is honest, loyal, trustworthy, giving and flexible. And she doesn't nag either. The only person you are kiddin' is yourself. So just have fun. And when she drops the anvil on your head, just remember I told you to enjoy yourself!!!
You are my hero!
2006-09-20 17:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, don't pretend you don't know what your doing. A girl at a party invited you to her home and you went.
What? You didn't know what you were doing?
Look dude. Do yourself a big favor...YOUR 19 YEARS OLD! WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Young too young to grasp the concept of relationship and the responsibility that goes with it. You have a sense of what you want, but don't know WHAT YOU WANT.
DATE. DATE. DATE. Your young. 19 and loaded with hormones to snap all the nuclear arsenal in the world. Don't make the mistake I did and get into a serious relationship without learning and developing yourself so your ready in the future to have a serious one.
HAVE FUN and get all the girls you want and don't make the mistake of having a girlfriend if you know damn well you gotta have them all.
2006-09-20 17:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are cheating because society is all about compromise. No one is expected to live up to the absolutes because absolutes are just so unforgiving! So everyone just accepts that people do what they want. It is disgusting. You are cheating because you want to cheat. No other reason. So take some responsibility for it. There are consequences to every action. NOTHING is done without someone somewhere knowing.
2006-09-20 17:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by miracol@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha....you remind me of my fiancee. We have been together for 2 years now. As soon as we started dating he said that all the girls wanted to "hook up" with him. If he did or not.....I'll never know......A lot of women that I know go after men in relationships. Just for the challenge. And just for the record.....women cheat too.....men just get caught more
2006-09-20 17:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by Joellen S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember this: Men can have hundreds of children all around the world. Women can have only one at a time..
Why do you think we were made that way?
In the beginning, that's the way things were. It's in the genes, ..why fight it.
2006-09-20 17:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by Mr.Been there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No apparently you are playing the field so to speak. You are much too young to devote yourself to one person
maturity wise and really age wise as well. You need not commit to someone when you are not yet settled in your own life. You need time to spread your wings and fly, so to speak, until you are finished with that, you should not be committed to anyone person.
2006-09-20 17:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters cheat.
But from the sound of your question maybe you are not really in love. You just think you are because she is so hot. I think you are not really committed or in love and still just dating around.
2006-09-20 18:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you can wait till you get caught and the girl you claim to love ends up leaving you and breaking your heart what you need is a real women to keep your *** in check
2006-09-20 17:12:44 · answer #10 · answered by monieluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋