He's in gang, a total gangster with tattoo everywhere, a hardcore kind of a person. I'm on the other hand is a school girl type, wear glasses, shy and quite... yet he likes me and even ask me out. He's really nice to me though and I feel really comfortable around him. I'm just curious. Do opposites really attract or is he just trying to get some from me?
2006-09-20 17:06:58 · 21 answers · asked by inktatu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
opposites attract
2006-09-20 17:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by sx_rx_rocknroll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I was in jr high, i had a boyfriend that was in a gang too. I was a cheerleader. Total opposites but we were together for 3 years, it can work out to be a good experience. Opposites do attract. Just be careful because I was shot at etc... gangs are dangerous and today, he's in jail.
2006-09-21 00:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it's true that opposites attract. If he's really nice to you, and makes you feel comfortable, hang on to him! Too bad he's in a gang, though. You really don't need to get mixed up with that kind of nonsense. Maybe you can encourage him to develop his own world without a gang.
2006-09-21 00:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In reality, the phrase "opposites attract" is true only about 50% of the time. Whether one chooses a mate that is alike or different from oneself, depends on how much he or she likes him or herself. If you like yourself a lot, you will look for someone like you. If you dont like yourself, you will look for qualities that you lack and that you admire in another person. Have you ever been really annoyed by someone's traits, and then realized that you have those same traits, and the phrase "it takes one to know one" became true? Thats why opposites usually attract. but I must say, I think he is probably trying to get some. And why would you want to date someone in a gang? Dont you think that people should be constructive rather than destructive? And why would you date someone who takes pride and joy in ruining other peoples lives and things?
2006-09-21 01:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by Sam S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, no one else seems to acknowledge this so I guess I will. STAY AWAY from a gang member!! It doesn't matter how sweet and comfortable you two are together, if he is really in a gang and gets into trouble, don't give him the time of day. Run and run fast.
2006-09-21 10:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by Yen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposites attract, tha's true but b careful b4 engaging urself in a relationship which u doubt may hurt u. Maybe he's just acting tough around to show, it's a bit fashion.
2006-09-21 00:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by Lovlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposites attract.
2006-09-21 00:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by aanstalokaniskiodov_nikolai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first if he is in a gang you should not want to be connected with him. You just being with him could bring some sort of harm to you. Gangs do not care who they hurt....So for your own safety start going out with someone else of your own character. Your lives are much too different and I feel it would not work out for you.
Put your safety and your families safety first. Date the right right people not those in gangs, ok.
2006-09-21 00:14:28 · answer #8 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oppsoites attract. My boyfriend and I are complete opposites too and I think that subconsciously you look for someone that has certain qualities that you can't have but would like to or really admire. It's pretty interesting how you admire that person so much because he/she has the qualities you somewhat desire.You look for the other half to complete a perfect someone.
2006-09-21 00:16:20 · answer #9 · answered by girl-06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is , I don't know why - some strange attraction but the kind of people surprisly are very real and communicative and can respect. I'm some how addicted to attraction of this people. I like them.
But is your life you do what is the best for you.
2006-09-21 00:15:24 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? some people find opposite attract super hot!
2006-09-21 00:12:48 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋