we get in to fight SOO much....but then i still love the person....wat should i do??
2006-09-20 16:59:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fighting doesn't make a relationship..........it makes hell. If you love the guy and he loves you you guys need counseling to figure out what he underlying problem is so you can work it out......if he isn't interested cut your losses and move on.
2006-09-20 17:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Love is not enough" is a quote uttered by hundreds, if not thousands, of professionals who specialize in marital counseling. It would also help to know the situation such as your ages, how long you've been together, are there children involved, etc. But in general terms, if you fight a lot you should sit down, talk, and maybe even get counseling to find out WHY you two have this dynamic going on between the both of you.
It could be that you are both from families that were very argumentative and this how you both learned how to settle differences. Maybe there are some deeper issues involved here. Fighting is a symptom of other things and only with professional help are you going to find out what those things are. If the other person refuses to work things out then you've already got your answer: time to move on.
Rod
2006-09-21 00:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by thedatepro 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well ask yourself, does he still love you? if he does, then work out your problems. i think the reason why there are fights in a relationship is because of the lack of communication. the more you communicate about your concerns then the more they're likely to be resolved. the more someone bottles their emotions inside and not getting into the root of the problem; the more problems it'll cause in the future. love is a wonderful thing. don't throw it away, because of fighting. a mature relationship is willing to compromise and make each other happy. we can't be all about ourselves, because if we are, then we will never be happy. happiness should be set by making others feel happy. in other words, making the person you love should make you happy in return. and that my friend is true love.
2006-09-21 00:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by kenney d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write down all the good, write down all the bad. If there is more bad than good, you need to think, can I put myself through this anymore? You may love the person but if you're fighting all the time it's just not healthy to keep going. Of course you love them, but if it's more bad than good it's not going to work, sit down & chat to your guy, maybe you need a couple of weeks break, then you may appreciate each other more, not have arguments about all these things, have counselling or something. If this doesnt help, or you cant see an end of the fightening, then it's time to let it go. Good luck
2006-09-21 00:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IS THIS SOMETHING YOU LOVE DOING, DO YOU SLAP EACH OTHER SO IT CAN BE SEEN BY OTHERS?.. IF YOU WAS TO MOVE ON TO A MUCH BETTER PERSON AND SOMETHING COMES UP ARE YOU GOING TO START A FIGHT W / ' EM AND HOPE THEY DONT MAKE IT WORSE FOR YOU, MAYBE CALL THE COPS, THEN IN A HOSPITAL.... IF YOU LOVE HOW YOU ARE GETTING TREATED THEN STAY, IF NOT MOVE OUT AND NEVER LOOK BACK, GOOD LUCK.....
2006-09-21 00:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by mike_m50501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love the person, and you know for sure that he/she loves you back, then what you are going to do is to have a heart-to-heart talk. Both of you should talk why you're always fighting. Find ways to the resolve that kind of problem. Find ways to avoid having fights. If both of you are willing to cooperate and change what needs to be changed to avoid fighting, then that's good.
2006-09-21 00:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am of the opinion that if you truly love someone, you can accept their points-of-view and observations without necessarily fighting. What is it that you love about the relationship? No, I do not believe it is normal to fight with any frequency.
Sounds like you're afraid of letting go and moving on.
2006-09-21 00:02:23 · answer #7 · answered by iniyaitza 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can always reolve the fights but.. are they about the same things over and over again that just can't seem to get fixed.. if you have only been together for a short period of time then ride it out things can always get better through working out your differences. me and my boyfriend literally argued for like 5 months straight just because we didn't really get to know the real each other before we comitted. but through those fights we learned our own faults and just wanted to make each other happy. we have been together for 2 years now and are going strong. but if you get to where you just can't take it... don't wear yourself out! take a break and see what happens!!
2006-09-21 00:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by booluvzdrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you fight so much, it will only get worse. You should be with someone that is pleasant to be with. Dating is about making yourself happy with another person. Not stressful.
2006-09-21 00:02:37 · answer #9 · answered by Wondering myself 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-21 00:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋