1yr now and I dont have the feeling I had in the first three months... I'm hitting my prime and she's 7 yrs older...
I love her to death but she's different with me now. We agree to disagree, and she constantly feels she has to correct me...
Our aniversary is coming up but she's going to a reunion party without me (whole other story), and thought i would forget our anniversary.... I just feel like she's putting me off, but I tried to break up with her and she convienced me she was sorry... but again pointed out things I need to work on!!???? WHAT TO DO..
2006-09-20 16:58:20 · 7 answers · asked by krsjw77 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly....the first 3 months is the honeymoon phase. Things are different in every relationship the first 3 months. Why wouldn't she take you to her reunion party? Most people bring their significant other. If its because of your age....than maybe she should find someone else. Do you do things for her? Are you her support? She loves you but you need to change everything to make her happy. You should take a break and see if she's the route you want to go. You never know it might just be the level of comfort you two have together. Maybe...you're just used to her not in love with her.
2006-09-20 17:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is kinda normal for you not to have the same feeling you had at the very start of a relationship but it should be replaced with a better feeling not a worse one. The fact that she made other plans on your anniversary assuming that you would forget says to me that she obviously doesnt have that much faith in you and that cannot build a healthy and happy relationship.
Unfortunately someone who makes you feel bad about yourself and tries to make you change isnt the right person to be with especially if they are focussing on it most of the time.
I think you should sit her down express your feelings and then walk away and dont look back.
Good Luck
2006-09-20 17:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by queen_of_highclass_insanity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have needs that she's not meeting. Things are not good according to what you are saying. Hang in there if you want to but I would break up with her for her to see what she's missing. She may correct you etc... but she will miss those things you do that she always has something to say about. Be careful though because you don't want a nag around. Try talking to her one more time and if she turns the blame on you then break it off for now.
2006-09-20 17:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you age is diff might have alot to do with it
sometimes they don't realize they do but they treat you like they know more because your younger ...
you need to sit down and tell her ...
It will still happen in the future .... just like your mom stills worries...
so it might be best to figure where you stand
its better to do it now then years down the road ....don't put it off
good luck
2006-09-20 17:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by I hear ya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dude things are absolutely not rite........ talk to her...sumthings up her mind
2006-09-20 17:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's trying to control you.... maybe its not on purpose but she is. sounds like you are growing apart, time to move on.
2006-09-20 17:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out. leave it.
2006-09-20 16:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by mbd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋