Me and this guy would text each other, through out the day. And i thought he liked me. But then one of my friends tells me that, the guy told his friend that he was only being nice to be so he could get into my pants.
I dont know if i should believe it or not. because he seems like such a nice guy. and he doesn't act like the type of guy to do that. So does he like me? or should i just drop him?
2006-09-20 16:48:57 · 12 answers · asked by Trista 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys act different in front of they're friends and in front of girls. My best advice is to hang out with him by yourself, one time. See if he tries to get into your pants, if he does then bye bye honey and if he doesnt then try the second date. Guys talk crap, thats an obvious. But also dont forget, your friend might be liking this guy and just saying that to get you away from him. You never know, just give him that one chance, if he screws up then you know what you need to do.
2006-09-20 16:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough information to give you a good answer. He could be nice or a player. If your friend is reliable and doesn't have any hidden agendas then trust your friend that he is a player and lose him. If your friend is not reliable then you can keep it going and try to find out yourself. Bear in mind that most guys (90%) would tell you what you want to hear just to get in your pants. Believe me, I'm a guy, I hear all the locker room talk. They will seem nice, but once they conquer you, you're just a notch on their bedpost. Good luck!
2006-09-20 23:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by justwantatalk12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ultimately, it's your choice whether he gets into your pants or not.The fact is that a guy may seem nice, but really he's just trying to get into your pants. Deal with that fact, and either go with him, or move on!
2006-09-21 00:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by Echo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should ask him that are see how he act with u some time with u. Guy are very funny towards females. Just make sur that u are doing the right thing and don't make any mistake.
2006-09-20 23:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by danielle l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just take it slow then I guess its a win-win situation...If he really likes you he won't mind taking time to know you and if he is just trying to get into your pants then he'll leave you alone after he realizes he's not going to get it and then you have your answer.
2006-09-20 23:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and get to know him better before you ultimately decide.
Not this texting thing, either. Have a real conversation without cell phones, Blackberries, etc., etc.
2006-09-20 23:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from a guy! i dont do it any more i have matured but we can easily tell you what we see you want to hear then we go for the kill or the cat! what you should do is ask him face to face and see what his reaction is.
2006-09-20 23:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can very easily be true as, all, guys can think of is, that.....
Anyways, atleast u have ur options open now.... u knw it can turn the wrng way....u keep teasing him and see whr it goes
2006-09-20 23:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COMMON NOW YOU ARE PROBABLY A SMART GIRL...IF HE IS RUSHING SEX YOU MUST KNOW FOR EXAMPLE IF YOU ALL HOOK UP AND BEFORE THE FIRST DATE HE WANTS IT THEN HE ISNT WORTH IT AND IF HE IS NATURALLY NICE SEX WILL BE THE LAST THING ON HIS MIND
2006-09-20 23:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by Innocence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u confront him about it. u have to do it face-2-face tho. its easier to tell if hes lying if its face-2-face.
2006-09-20 23:51:47 · answer #10 · answered by jmon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋