It seems that its impossible to find a sweet girl these days, all the one I know have boyfriends and are so happy that everyone who is single is single for a reason and they never seem to like me. It seems like I can't find a sweet girl anymore. I mean damnit I'm 19 shouldn't I have found someone like that by know?
2006-09-20 16:40:04 · 19 answers · asked by Michael M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you'll find someone..your 19! maybe you looking in the wong places..
good luck
2006-09-20 16:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by Classic Couture 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Michael,
You're not alone in your thinking.....Honestly, I'm 22 and just now found a decent and reliable man. And you're 19 (okay I'm getting ready to sound like a parent) but you shouldn't be worried about finding someone eventhough I do understand about wanting to find someone thats truly sincere. I, myself, was close to giving up on finding that "great guy" b/c I had been cheated on, beaten on, and used by men that I thought 'loved' me when in all reality I was just being to naive and had fallen in love with the word and concept of what I thought love was. It might take some time but you will have that special person walk into your life when its meant to be and right now just might not be the right time for fate to get involved. I hope that I've not sounded too much like a parent but this is the same advice that I would give any of my friends. Good luck and hang in there!!
2006-09-20 23:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by Rach W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude,
You Are WAY to concerned about this,
I'ma 27 year old guy and i cannot truthfully say that ti have had a girlfriend,
Yes, This is the truth, i've been led down dead end roads by girls, had them act interested then meet somebody else.
you know when i was 19 your age this used to bother me immensely, now not so much, I've talked to many peopl about it and seen many of my freinds hav there hearts broken by girls after being with them for a while, it gets kinda scary, really, unless you find the right one, it may not be worth it,
the right one will eventually come to you as i believe it will to me.
i know what you mean, "all the sweet ones are taken" yeah that's only about 95 % true, and the ones that are single are that way cause they want to party all of the time.
Don't worry about it dude, YOU WILL FIND ONE oUT THERE
2006-09-20 23:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really rushing things a little. I was married with a kid by the time I was 18 and that was a mestake. You need to change your mind set because that is what that is holding you back. Women at your age don't want a keeper they want someone to party with. So I would stick with having sex and a good time for maybe 10 more years. I was divorced in two years.
Have fun for a few years..
2006-09-20 23:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talk as if you are over the hill. You are 19, my god you have your whole life ahead of you. Yes you should maybe have had a date by now, but there is no cut off time limit. It will happen when you meet the right girl and she says yes. Take your time, it will happen when you least expect it.
2006-09-20 23:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You're 19 and still young. You should be out having fun and not worrying about whether or not you are in love. Love will find you not the other way around. Don't be needy.
2006-09-20 23:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time you will find a sweet one. good things come to those who wait. When you are looking it seems to never happen then when you least expect it happens. don't worry so much u find what your looking for!
2006-09-20 23:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you turn 50, then you should start worrying!
;-)
You should worry more about having fun now, while you're young.
Wear protection...this will minimize chances of pregnancy/std's...basically prevents you from being tied down to a girl who *might* be the right one (until you find out otherwise with time)
There's nothing more inconvenient than doing the dirty with the wrong one, being tied down for the rest of your life, only to meet your soulmate less than a few yrs later!!!
2006-09-20 23:43:59 · answer #8 · answered by silver butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily, I mean your still pretty young and if the right girl hasn't come along then why waste to much time with the wrong one? Good things come to those who wait and I would also say be open minded, the right one might not be who and when you think!!! Good Luck and keep your focus on your future!!!
2006-09-20 23:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by carolg1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes -- she left on the 5:20 bus to Ann Arbor. Sorry.
Seriously, your FRIGGIN' 19!!! You've got a LONG time to find Ms. Sweetums. Quit feeling mopey and go out and FIND HER, you louse.
xxxoo,
SunsetSam
2006-09-20 23:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 56 and I haven't found anyone. Be patient, be different from the crowd, build your life and become a success. You're so young, it isn't even funny. Be patient, and you can be drawn to someone eventually.
2006-09-20 23:41:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋