My boyfriend has many female friends. And some of them likes him. When I was with him at my house, he got a call from the girl who likes him (she knows me that i'm his gf). But he always says she's annoying because she calls him a lot so he didn't answer his phone. He just sent her a text like "I'm at the bar and its very loud, I can't talk on the phone". I'm just wondering, why he didn't tell her that he's with me(girlfriend)?
2006-09-20 16:27:23 · 28 answers · asked by diakiko 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We're now in long distance relationship (about 100miles) We see each other every weekends. And the girl who called my boyfriend lives in my city. So I don't he's cheating on me (hopefully...) but i guess i should ask him first...thank you for your answers!
2006-09-20 16:43:59 · update #1
I would ask him why...
2006-09-20 16:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's get for real now -- You have got ot be kidding us? You can't see what this "PLAYER" is doing? Do you really know now many of you (grf.) he has ? Okay, you can't because if you could he would be telling "all" the other low down dogs that are calling "YOUR" man he has a great girlfriend. SORRY BUT THE TRUTH HURTS.
2006-09-20 16:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by Cissey V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he bother texting her after he wouldn't take her phone call? Maybe because he's seeing both of you.
As women, we have instincts, a gut feeling, usually they're not wrong. So if YOU think something is up, more than likely it is. Good luck!
2006-09-20 16:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he doesn't respect you and he knows if the other girl he's trying to hook up with knew he had a girlfriend like you claim...but he wont confirm...she might not be waiting in line to hook up with him. Face it girl that man has more than one back up plan and you should have some self-respect and kick his lyin' **** to the curb. If he really didn't want to talk to her...she wouldn't be calling him...he would have put a stop to it already...Don't play the fool...Dump him and find yourself a real one woman man!
2006-09-20 16:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I''m a 27 yar old guy,
he's probably not one to be totally trusted, I'm sure that he's a player, That's how a lot of those type of guys' act.
THere is a possibility that he could be making out with some of them, I'd watch him real carefully
2006-09-20 16:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He owns his phone. His phone doesn't own him. The phone owner decides when it is convenient to answer, not the caller. If he didn't want to answer, you should realize that it means he would rather be with you than talk on the phone with her. If you go looking for something, you are surely going to invent something and will kill your relationship.
2006-09-20 16:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't lie he simply said he was at the bar and its "very loud". I think you are reading way too much into this. Remember, it's not all about you. Do you have anything thats a more concrete example?
Rod
2006-09-20 16:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by thedatepro 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a very good question but did you ask HIM that??? I think you're asking the wrong person. Remember, the key to a relationship is communication so communicate!
2006-09-20 16:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by Jess23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GIRL BE THANKFUL THE LESS PEOPLE WHO KNOW THAT YOU'LL ARE TOGETHER THE BETTER....MAY BE HE CUD OF SAID THAT BECAUSE HE DIDNT WANT THE GIRL(HIS FRIEND) TO GET JEALOUS OF YOU AND HIM BEING TOGETHER BECAUSE SHE MIGHT THEN TRY TO BREAK UP YOU TWO...THE BEST RELATIONSHIPS ARE THE ONES THAT ARE ON A DOWN LOW THEY ALSO TEND TO LAST THE LONGEST
2006-09-20 16:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by Innocence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE HE WANT TO PLAY THE SINGE GAME, WTH
THESE WOMEN, AND TO BE THAT JUST TOTALLY DISREPECTFULLY TOWARD YOU. IF HE CANT STEP UP
TO THE PLATE AND TELL THESE WOMEN HE HAS A
GIRLFRIEND INSTEAD OF LYING ABOUT IT, IT WOULD
TIME TO GET A NEW BOYFRIEND. SOMEONE THAT
WILL APPRECIATE AND RESPECT WHAT HE HAS. HE' SOUND LIKE HE NOT THE ONE FOR YOU. TRUST ME
HE NOT GOING TO CHANGE . THE BALL IS IN YOUR COURT.
2006-09-20 16:33:12 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd get a new boyfriend, unless you're very sure he's not cheating. Come on! he doesn't even want to say he's with you?
2006-09-20 16:32:05 · answer #11 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋