Friend problem
I have this friend.. we known cmg to 5 years..she mad at me for not contributing with my other friends on her birthday gift and i did not turn up for her birthday dinner.
1st thing : i have no idea when the dinner was i mean no one updated me on the details. the organiser(one of my friends too) told the rest that i was uncontactable .. i mean to me, one of them can just always email me if cannot get me through phone .. im also on msn n some of dem were also online but no one approached me.
ok i knew that her birthday was near frankly speaking i cant remember the exact date. i mean i cant even remmber all of my friends birthdays.. now this birthday girl making such a big deal about me not givign her presents n stuff.. recently i got to know that she deleted me from her msn list.
2006-09-20 16:16:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
the thing about this birthday girl is that i'm quite disheartened with her.. last time we used to work in the same building same area.. but i was just a mere part-timer..shes a permenant staff dere.. i mean if we are friends where we travel together( meaning in a group) have dinner together and when she was with her working collegues she pratically ignored me even when i said hi
one time i said," hey how are you,?" when i saw her..that time she was with her collegue.. she gave me an annoyed look and even one of my other working fren ask is she yr friend,, but why is she giving u that i dont like you look.. i feel so humiliated dere.. i was just being nice saying hi n that how i got treated.. i found out that her so collegue dont like me because i'm not in the high class standard..
i was so upset after 5 years she dumbs me for her high class friends. and now shes going around making up stories as if i was the evil one in this whole thing.. do u think shes not worth it as a friend?
2006-09-20 16:16:20 · update #1
opps i posted in the wrong category
2006-09-20 16:19:23 · update #2
Definition of a friend:
Someone who knows everything about You and loves You anyway. Someone You can trust 110 percent knowing that they will be there for You whatever You go through, never judging and never gossiping to others about Your problems. Someone You can sit with for hours without saying a word and have the best time anyway. Someone who knows how You are feeling just by looking into Your eyes, or through just the hello greeting they get when they call You. There is no plausable excuse for bad behavior like this.
Walk away , give your trust to someone who is trustworthy.
2006-09-20 16:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by Beamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't remember everyone birthdays either and if you weren't up-dated by other friends it is a bit mean that you have been giving you the cold shoulder and is this upset with you.
But to me if she is ignoring you and not giving you the time of day and treating you like this, i think you do have to re-think you friendship.
Try sitting down and talking to her, explain what happened with her birthday and ask why she's ignoring you when out. Try to sort this out. If she doesn't forgive you for the birthday and doesn't say sorry for ignoring you then i would forget about her, she can't think much of your friendship.
2006-09-20 23:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a true friend, she will understand your situation and not take it out on you. Did you explain your situation to her and apologise with a belated b/day present, when you found out about the b/d party later? If you had, then you are justified in dropping her as a friend.
We have to be sincere with our friends. My advice to you is not be bothered with her past behaviour, when you were ignored, though you greeted her. Though you felt slighted then, don't keep it to heart. You are only hurting yourself if you do so.
2006-09-20 23:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ya she is not worth it....thats a real bad thing she did to you..... if she gets too pushy just confront her and tell her the way u feel....chill, im sure u have quiet a lot of frnds
2006-09-20 23:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are talking about 2 different people.
2006-09-20 23:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lou Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are being pushed out of the loop. Make new friends and live and let live with them.
2006-09-20 23:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she just wants a gift from you....a friend wouldn't be mad, a friend would understand....
2006-09-20 23:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by arielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋