Is it wrong to have sex before marriage? Please explain.
2006-09-20 16:10:46 · 24 answers · asked by Michelle Annette 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone has their own opinion about this one. I don't believe that you "have" to be married before you have sex but whether it is your first time or your 50th time, it should be reserved for a committed relationship that is going somewhere. Some people have an attitude that sex has become nothing more than an activity, something to do on a date... Like it was bowling or something. You have to be so careful, not just because there are so many diseases out there, the world is full of guys that will say anything just to get you in bed and it will mean nothing to them once it is over. Keep this in mind, nothing can change your life like an unwanted or unplanned pregnancy- an act of passion that lasts about 20 minutes if you are lucky, could tie you to a loser for the rest of your life. When you meet the right person, you will know. Don't listen to that whole "kick the tires" thing either... You don't have to be Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie to be good in the sack- some packages are prettier than others but we kind of all have the same hardware honey. When you are with the right person a sex life will be a great thing... and getting better at it with someone you love is kinda fun too. I hope that helps you a bit... best of luck to you.
2006-09-20 16:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on your own belief system. Obviously many people find sex before marriage wrong in some areas of the world is illegal because it is against some religious laws. Some nations it is illegal because of the age of the participants not for religious reasons.
So to answer your question properly you would need to give more details to the question. Such as "tell me if it wrong to have sex before marriage as a Muslim, Catholic, Mormon, Fundamental Christian, or Iranian, Australian.
Hope this helps- maybe you could elaborate on your question so we could help answer it better.
2006-09-20 23:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by newrabbit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say no its not wrong.
Marriage in reality is just a peace of paper... if you love someone and want to share the rest of your life together that's all that matters you don't have to be married to show that.
And you don't have to married to have sex!
2006-09-20 23:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the eyes of god ...YES... But in the eyes of humanity it's like test driving a car. IF your'e not sexually compatible with that person you sould definitly not marry them. TEST DRIVE THEM FIRST. Sexual compatibility and phyiscal attaction is a must. Trust me this is my third marriage. and WE ARE GREAT SEXUAL PARTNERS, along with soul mates! WE now have two children together and married almost five years and still love each other more now then the first day we fell in love .
2006-09-20 23:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF YOU ARE A RELIGIOUS PERSON..YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT PRE-MARTIAL SEX IS AGAINST THE WORD OF THE LORD HOWEVER TIMES HAVE CHANGED AND RELATIONSHIPS AREN'T LIKE HOW THEY USED TO BE....SEX IS A SPECIAL UNION BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN AND EVEN IF YOU DECIDE TO HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE THEN YOU SHOULD BE CAREFUL WITH THE PARTNER YOU CHOOSE TO HAVE INTERCOURSE WITH
2006-09-20 23:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by Innocence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm that's kind of a dumb question. It's not like there's a definite answer. If you are a religious person and believe in God and so forth, then yes it is wrong. If you are worldly like most people. No it's not wrong just like nothing else is wrong except racism and being sexist.
2006-09-20 23:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by Frank P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one who made you and knows you more than anyone says its not only wrong but unsafe. Why, well if you love someone then the first time you have sex with them you want to make love to them. the only way you can do this is if your married to them. why? because when you marry them than have sex with them your telling them that i love you and the only time i will have sex is when I'm married and now I'm married I'm married to you. i will never have sex with anyone else again but you i love you and want to make love to you.
2006-09-20 23:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by tan t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has a different opinion.... mine is:
i don't think you should because what if you get pregnant and of course the girl almost always want the guy to stay and help her take care of the child.
and there are also different situations that i think you should have sex be4 marriage.
i hope that you found this useful!!
2006-09-20 23:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse not!!....U should have sex when ur body and mind both are matured enuf to do it.... wot if u dont get married till ur like 40....ure peak years of having a good sex life are gone.......
Make sure u do it rite , enjoy it whenever u do it, use protection and not fall for the wrng guys....... Happy doin it
2006-09-20 23:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Michelle: according to that question about having sex before
marriage my saying " no no no wait after words" because
people warns of vanerial health risks so dont please
2006-09-20 23:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋