just recently, i noticed a girl. she looked cute.she is a bookworm. she has a good personality and thats why i like her. we hung out but it was boring. she and i have nothing in common in that she like the things that i don't. i like her because she's cofident in the way she looks and how she acts. should i give it another go and whut shoulde we do. when should i tell her that i like her and want her to be mai gf. this is not a crush so don't think of it this way. by doing whut things should i do to make her like me back. i need help and fast. should i go after her now before its too late, and if i do whut should i say, i'm shy.
2006-09-20 15:57:57 · 10 answers · asked by john g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey you never get what you want if your shy, beleive me i know. you get things taken away from you if you wait around.hint hint.I think you should try again. You both were probably nervous.Maybe there's also something about you that she's not so crazy about.I wouldn't tell her that you want her to be your gf until your sure you really like her.The truth be know she probably likes you too and doesn't want to say anything either. I would tell her you would like to get to know her better and hang out more.Yes you should move fast but not too fast. Good luck.
2006-09-20 16:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like her or don't you? If you like her, don't worry about what you have in common - just make the time you do spend together special in its own way. It will be different from what both of you are used to, it will be new and special. Ask her to give that kind of friendship opportunity to grow so that you might both experience something wonderful.
If she's a bookworm like you say, as I am, she'll really like you saying something like that. Use your own words, and make it your own, so you sound genuine.
If your're not interested in the girl, let it go.
2006-09-20 16:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you should ask her out again and do something normal like go eat out and watch a movie. Its boring sometime when you and your partner have so much in common. Maybe its time to spice up your life a little by learning what she likes and same thing with her. who knows, by doing this, you'd be able to learn more and find new interest. Good Luck
2006-09-20 16:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-20 15:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by Player 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the first date is bad because you are nerveos. So yes go out with her again and if it is still lame then find someone else.
2006-09-20 16:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why pursue a relationship with someone who bores you?
There are a bazillion other girls out there.....find one.
2006-09-20 16:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a feeling I already answer this question........just be yourself and ask her out again
2006-09-20 16:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by JTB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself...you're attracted to her looks and you discovered that there's no chemistry. Move on...
2006-09-20 16:00:00 · answer #8 · answered by Joe Rockhead 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just kiss her... if u see "fireworks" its meant to be... if u hate it and she does too just be friends!
2006-09-20 16:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try someone different.......ur surely not compatible.
2006-09-20 15:59:59 · answer #10 · answered by blkhawk51 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋