2006-09-20 15:40:25 · 10 answers · asked by ralph c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because on some subconscience level women think of the future. That sounds wierd but its true, we think subconsciencly about families and all that kind of stuff. Its not fair of them to judge you because of your disability. We just want a stable future and some women may think that if you dont have a steady job that you wouldnt be able to provide them with that. If they truely are just judging you because you are drawing disability then they arnt worth your time anyways.
2006-09-20 15:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by prettygirl_angel2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that it's because of the disability? Around here I can imagine there are a lot of women who would be happy to date a man who was getting a regular check. Seek some input from platonic women friends about what makes the guy "less desirable" it may be eye opening.
2006-09-20 15:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by medic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UNLESS YOU ARE PHYSICALLY DISABLED, THEN YOU SHOULD NOT BE DRAWING DISABILITY. IT INDICATES LAZINESS. EVEN IF YOU ARE DISABLED IN SOME WAY, YOU HAVE SOMETHING MARKETABLE IN SPITE OF IT. BY USING A CHALLENGE YOU HAVE TO GET PAID FOR NOTHING, YOU MAKE YOURSELF OUT TO BE A LOSER. WOMEN WANT CAPABLE MEN. THEY DONT'T CARE ABOUT THE SMALL STUFF. IF YOU HAVE ABAD BACK, GET A JOB ONLINE OR OVER THE PHONE. IF YOU CAN'T WALK, SIT BEHIND A COUNTER. IF YOU CAN'T MOVE YOUR HANDS, GET A JOB OVER A SPEAKERPHONE, TROUBLESHOOTING. THERE ISN'T MUCH OF AN EXCUSE TO DRAW DISABILITY UNLES YOU'RE HOSPITAL BED-RIDDEN AND RECOVERING FROM SOMETHING SERIOUS.....AND EVEN THAT SHOULDN'T LAST FOREVER.
IT'S NOT THAT A WOMAN IS TOO GOOD FOR HIM.....IT'S THAT HE IS TOO GOOD FOR PUTTING FORTH ANY EFFORT.
2006-09-20 15:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We girls can be cruel. We often take on glance and judge by our first impression. Those women who turn you down simply because you are drawing disablilty aren't worth your time. Don't just give up on findong someone. When you get turned down, brush off your feet and move on. You'll find someone who loves you for you, and doesn't care what disablilities you have or what you look like or anything. She will love you for who you are inside. Women who think they are too good really aren't. They are just stuck up wenches who will never be happy with themselves or anyone else. Just have patience, and don't give up.
2006-09-20 15:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by missesmoo236 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably because it's not very manly. I really don't know tha's a good question.
Don't feel bad alot of girls don't like me because I'm an evil repo man, but on the other hand, alot of girls find it attractive.
2006-09-20 15:43:37 · answer #5 · answered by Frank P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hun....it all depends on the situation...if you have some kind of serious physical disability then there's nothing wrong with that..but if your playing the system then it can make ya look pretty bad...love daisy
2006-09-20 15:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by crazy_daisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them you are independently wealthy. Don't tell them you are receiving disability checks. No chick wants to hear that.
2006-09-20 15:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your disability and your broke a$$ can't afford her high maintenance ways.
2006-09-20 15:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by sedona71 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
prob think they're lazy and cant keep a steady job...not my opinion just sayn
2006-09-20 15:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by Diverse Insanity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they are
2006-09-20 15:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋