It sounds really wrong for me to like someone that much older than me. what is my prob?
2006-09-20 15:26:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a average teen to be attracted to a older guy...now there is something wrong w/ him if he's attracted to you.
2006-09-20 15:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you, when I was a teenager I had a crush on a older guy. But that's all you need to limit it too. Nothing positive can come from being with a person that many years older than you when you're still a child. You're barely a teenager, no matter how mature you are. Your plans are different from his. Four more years may seem like a long time, but you'll survive. You don't want to rush your teenage years. Don't even open the door of communication to let this 21-year-old in, some guys are not looking out for your best interest. If he truly cares about you, he'll let you grow besides jail is not a great place to be and your parents will probably go crazy if they knew about this attraction. It ruined one of my birthdays... believe me. You're young, have crushes but don't let it ruin your childhood. Good luck and God bless!
2006-09-20 22:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jazzminesmommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you. IT is really common for people to like someone older then themselves. I've dated older men. when i was 13 i had my first boyfriend and he was 5 years older then I even dated a guy 15 years older then me and im 19 some people are just that way. But I've found that the older guys are more for "fun times" and the people more around your age are for a lifetime atleast for me anyway.
2006-09-20 22:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's typical, I'm 13 and I haven't had any crushes like that, but I'm still in Middle School 8th grade. When I get into highschool I bet that will come for me. So, yeah, it's typical.
2006-09-20 22:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Hedwig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually boys grow up later than girls, so may be you just like boys who know themselves and know their rules. don't worry u r OK, nothing wrong with you. just be careful, because sometimes, older boys look only for sex. but not all of them. first listen to your heart well and when u r 100% sure what u want, act, not before this. good luck
2006-09-20 22:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically there's nothing WRONG with it. But he is 5 years older. I'd continue to remain friends.
2006-09-20 22:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by Matthew J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're normal. Just don't let it develop into more than a crush or else you're in trouble. That makes you jailbait your 21 year old will end up in jail.
2006-09-20 22:29:58 · answer #7 · answered by Lainie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, when I was 14 I went out with a 26 year old... so yeah... thats only my opinion though.
2006-09-20 22:56:10 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that, but I wouldn't spend too much time fantasizing about it though; it's your first older woman crush
2006-09-20 22:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by medinatherapy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dnt have a problem im 15 an im attracted to older guys 18-25, but i doubt u will get that person unless they have problems..... sry Hun
2006-09-20 22:31:23 · answer #10 · answered by kokos_kisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋