there is this guy that is from my school and on friday we met eachother. he really likes me, and i like him. he asked me out friday also, i said yes but now he doesnt want to go out with me because we have no classes togather, so we will never see eachother, its not that he doesnt like me, he just doesnt knoe me very well. what should i do? should i get to know him, then go out with him, or should i just forget about him.
p.s. me and some friends are going to the movies on friday, and he might come with us. what should i say to him?
2006-09-20 15:11:15 · 5 answers · asked by snickelfritz 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely get to know him! What harm could come from it? After you know the real him, you'll know whether he's "date-worthy" or not. If he is well date away. If not, hey you've gained a friend!
Just be friend with him for now. Don't lead him, especially at the movies.
Good Luck.
And for future reference: Get to know a guy before you try and go out with him.
2006-09-20 15:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his reason for not wanting to go out with you is because you don't have any classes together, then that's completely retarded! Hun, there's a book you need to pick up and read called "He's just not that into you." Now before you label me as harsh and think I don't know what I'm talking about I suggest you read it. It's a great way to understand the male mind which is SO complex to the point that we don't know what their actions mean. Yes, I'll give you the fact that he asked you out in the first place, but guys like "the catch" and there's got to be a reason he doesn't want to date you anymore that has nothing to do with classes together (as I said that's retarded!) As far as going to the movies with him, unless he said yes, he'll definately be there he really doesn't want to go, trust me. If he really liked you he'd do anything to be there with you. Just read the book, I guarantee you'll understand his actions.
2006-09-20 15:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think he really wanted to take you out N the 1.place WHAT just because your not in the same classes he dont want to take you out something is fishy there...... well if he does come to the movie house & tries to sit beside you be nice tell him that your on a date w/ your grilfriends & would not mind if he takes the chair in front of you.... GOOD LUCK...
2006-09-20 15:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by mike_m50501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him ok there is no wrong to know him more being natural and friendly
2006-09-20 15:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by desiree gersaniba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he doesn't want to take the time to get to know you, that's his loss.
2006-09-20 15:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋