I'd just like to ask this, because it seems EVERYONE thinks it's ok to have sex before your married. It's saddening, actually. I'm quite, quite young but I know I won't have sex until I'm married. Mostly I don't want to screw up my life, and I don't want to screw someone I'm probally not going to marry. Plus, me christian, hellooooo. If you have sex before your married, you break God's law. Why? Go look it up.
2006-09-20 15:04:51 · 10 answers · asked by Kio Prower 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
@ Greg: I got it from this book called Sex: It's Worth Waiting For Greg...something. It said that God made sex for when you're married. And when you have sex with someone, that means you are SUPPOSED to be with them forever...sad, sad, sad.
2006-09-20 15:16:39 · update #1
It's wonderful you are waiting for the right person.
2006-09-20 15:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin until I got married and I am so glad that is the choice I made. Please stick with your decision, you will be so glad you did!! Just knowing you are doing things Gods way and you can never go wrong doing that. Think also of the gift you will be giving your husband on your wedding night not to mention all the disease you will be protecting yourself from!!
Just know that you will have a lot more attention from guys in school growing up if they know this (so I wouldn't tell anyone if you don't have to) because they will see you as a challenge and they will want to be the one that "got you".
I know this from personal experience.
Be proud of your decision, you really should be!!!!
2006-09-20 22:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by SpecialK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a virgin and I totally agree with you but I am Jewish and the rules are that if you have sex before marriage then your family disowns you which is excruciating, also I'm against sex before marriage because I was rapped and sexually melested when I was little and I don't even like guys getting real physical with me. But thats just me also I'm saving my virginity because it's the most vaulable thing I have.
2006-09-20 22:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by amerine09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 35 years old and I was a virgen when I got married at 27 I do not regret it because I did not love anyone besides my husband and we both were in love it was great and and I would have regret if I would have sleep with someone that would not appreciate me , i learned new things with my husband he answers all my questions and you know what ?he makes me to be as he wanted me to be ....because he was the first
2006-09-20 22:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by Yami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a virgin. I'm 16 and christian and I would like to know where you got the breaking God's law from. But as far as, am I glad, then hell no.
2006-09-20 22:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by Greg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Christian 2 and I feel exactly the same way. good 4 me and good 4 u 2=)
2006-09-20 22:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by 77684 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a virgin and 21 and i would rather wait for the right person that i love and honestly i am glad
2006-09-20 22:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by chuy85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a virgin. It sucks, I want sex now. ):
2006-09-20 22:07:19 · answer #8 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it right and you'll have a happy marriage
2006-09-20 22:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by meandmyskate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is sin, sin is forgivin, so STICK IT IN!!!!!!
2006-09-20 22:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋