How do i move on when i feel that i don't want to move on.well me and my ex are broken up, she is supposed to be moving out but she hasn't yet. now it seems like we are closer in a way but not together. she broke up with me. she is pregnant with our child. at the initial stage of our break up, i was trying to make things work out but she wasn't hearing it and i was irritating her. now that i have decided to let go completely, she shows another side. we have had moments of romance, we talk more, and now i am able to give her hugs and hold her alittle. last week, she was hating me and told me that she didn't want me to be apart of her life and the baby's life. I want to be there for her and the baby. i still love her but i try not to let my emotions show, i just enjoy the moments we share together, i look at this as closure but i dont konw how she feels. Does she want to work things out or is this her way of saying good bye?
2006-09-20 15:02:25 · 8 answers · asked by drew46759 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is part one of the question i just asked: i just got out of a relationship with my ex. She dumped me. I still have huge feelings for this girl but she shows none for me. i need to know how to get over her. she is pregnant with our child. my ex wont even talk to me. i want to be there for our child and i am deeply in love with her, but i am also killing myself because i still love her so much. What do i do?
2006-09-20 15:02:52 · update #1
More Detail: Well me and my girl have been dating for 4 months now and she is pregnant, with our child. I kept talking to my ex when i should have let her go in the first place. My girl felt like she her feelings were put 2nd to my ex. My girl was not comfortable with me taking to my ex but i did anyway and hid it from her. she got upset and wanted her space, i didn't give her the space she wanted so she broke up with me. i truly love her with all my heart and i want to be there for her, but she is telling me that she needs to do what she wants to do like i did what i wanted to to. she said that i keep crying about the relationship and she is tired of hearing me cry about it. i don't know what to do, because i have said sorry for screwing up, i told her that i was stupid for doing what i did, i don't want her to give up on us like that, i feel the we have real love and we shouldn't let that go. She is very special to me and i have been hurting over this for a while, i need answers
2006-09-20 15:03:14 · update #2
don't understand something. When i was trying so hard to work things out and was feeling depressed over everything, she hated me. Now that i have fully decided to let go and let her know that i have let go, she is being nicer, and shows signs of how we used to be when we were together. is she playing mind games with me? I take this weeks events as a sign of closure to our relationship and not really getting my hopes up, but is she doing the same or is she wanting to work things out because she figured that i wouldn't move on and that i would just sit around and be depressed over her. you know what they say, you never know what you had until its gone. i learned this lesson, is she learning it right now?
2006-09-20 15:03:36 · update #3
i love her with all of my heart, i want to so much tell her but this is something that she doesn't want to hear from me, i am trying so hard to let go but this is killing me inside. I don't know what to do? Now i met this other girl and she seems really cool to hang out with. She is helping me get my mind off of my ex but now i feel that i am developing feelings for this new girl, while i still have deep feelings for my ex. I am so confused right now.
2006-09-20 15:05:07 · update #4
As for your ex, you really need to tell her to hurry along with it...there is a reason she's an ex and it isn't fair to your current girlfriend to have her still living in your place...but by no means should you be mean to her about it...secondly, I think your gf is just going through a lot right now...she has to deal with your ex still living with you, and on top of that she is pregnant...pregnant women need their space, but they also need a lot of comfort so you just have to keep trying to make her happy...
Good luck and I hope everything works out for you :-D
2006-09-20 15:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is pregnant and her hormones are racing all over the place. You need to have a SERIOUS conversation about what you want in your life - meaning her and the baby. Stop dwelling on the past mistakes and start be talking to her.
2006-09-20 22:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anna F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is yeah, she is missin the old you and you need to keep on being there for her, hopefully she will come around
2006-09-20 22:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by DustinHastings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down man get yourself laid and give it a month or two see what happens
2006-09-20 22:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by yankabilly46 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just look for someone new its hard but you will get over. i now it is hart but you will live
2006-09-20 22:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by crissangel20064 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's pregnant and has mood swings...just be there for her...she might hate you now, but she will need you soon.
2006-09-20 22:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are really depressed. This was long question.
2006-09-20 22:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by stemo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean any harm, but who do you think is going to read all of that?
2006-09-20 22:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by rach 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋