She thinks she knows everything and I just hate her so much because she treats him like crap and he has to fit his schedule around her and everything. I just can't figure out what I should do.
2006-09-20 14:51:51 · 9 answers · asked by unforgiving 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have a similar problem , but try married. I have found that I can talk to my brother about her but bottom line is he loves her, he chooses to let her treat him that way, and until he is hurt enough by her he will stay with her. Don't make your brother turn away from you. He will need someone to help him pick up the pieces when she moves on. Just love him and ignore her......
2006-09-20 15:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u gotta let him deal with this on his own. I know it hurts and it's annoying as hell, but it's his life not yours. BUT if she starts to disrespect your home, your parents or other siblings, then you need to check her (in front of him) and check him, them probably give him some space....I had to do that with my best friend and her boy friend. He was a total jerk who treated her like crap. Tried talking to her but she was sooooo in love that it went in one ear and out the other. But once she let him cross that line by disrespecting me, I cut her off until she came to her senses, which she did. And, were still best friends.
2006-09-20 15:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by KryBaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..this sound really bad..i know how u fell if someone threat ur bro like that..y dun u sit and talk with ur bro..explain to him how does a guy should be..he should be more daring and not shaking head for all that the gal say..
just tell him that there a lot gals out there who is know how to respect guys..
just ask him to leave this kids of gals..
2006-09-20 15:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by CuTe GaL.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your relationship.
You can TELL him how you feel about her, but don't feel upset when he doesn't listen.
He needs to figure out what he wants to go by himself. You can give him an outside perspective, but it's hard to take that. Go easy and listen to him. Don't push too hard. You aren't able to live his life for him.
2006-09-20 15:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only tell him if he asks your honest opinion, sometimes you have to grin and bear the people and choices family make. Just be there if it falls apart or when he realises what a B***h she is.
2006-09-20 14:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know, without getting emotional or expressing hate (and without namecalling) that she's being unreasonable with him and less than courteous with you.
Then stay away from him until he is finished with that relationship.
2006-09-20 14:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if he asked. I figure he'll find out in the long run. Just wait it out.
2006-09-20 14:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by tinamia1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your brother how you feel. Why should he get mad? He doesn't control what impressions others give you. Hell, if your that worried, tell her. What are you afraid of?
2006-09-20 15:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by fret_guy89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. That may not work because he maybe in love/lust.
2006-09-20 15:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by Bigboi47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋