OK. I'm a 15-year old girl with an average physical look but I consider myself pretty intelligent intellectually. I take Honors/Advanced classes and care a lot about my grades. I am dedicated to school and intend to get somewhere in life. I wear little make-up and don't consider myself beautiful. I am very kind and honest and love to talk about everything.
A few questions for high school guys -
1. For those guys who consider themselves "preps" or "jocks," would you even consider taking a girl like me out on a date?
2. For all guys: if you like a girl, what do you want to know before asking her out? How long do you wait and what do you wait for?
3. For all guys: do you ever let a girl know you like her through your actions/facial expressions?
4. For all guys: does pressure from your friends affect your choice of the girl you date?
5.If you like a girl from her looks and have not ever gotten a chance to talk with her one on one, would you still consider asking her out?
Thx!
2006-09-20 14:18:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) Well....i'm not a prep, or a jock...i actually hate them because some of them can be real jacka$$es....but in Highschool I was a really popular person but really laid back so people usually come to me. I never focused on the extremely pretty/sexy girls, thin with a 'coke bottle' shape and what not [I mean they are cute but i never ONLY focused on them], I just went for what I liked [but I only do long term relationships and right now im currently in one]. My girlfriend is a bit chubby, and short, but still pretty, smart and has a wonderful personality that I just click with and what not, Im not too picky.
2) If i like a girl normally [find her attractive], then I just leave it as is....i'd get to know her atleast if we happen to talk. If i REALLY like a girl, I would get to know her better & quicker then I would tell her that I like her...with my current girlfriend, it was only like two weeks.
3) Yeah...you may know from my actions, but people consider me 'flirty' but that's how i normally am [when im single], I just talk sweet and truthful.
4) Nope...my friends dont pressure me because they know better. When i started dating my wonderful girlfriend, she was a freshman and me a senior. My friends thought it was weird at first but they know not 2 get on my bad side so they only mentioned it once and when i 'talked' to them, they didnt speak of it again.
5) I would try 2 talk to her, if not in person, then atleast online or something. I wasn't a desperate person when single, if we start talkin, then we start talkin. If not then well, what happens happens.
So yeah, that's how i was. but again, now im in a relationship, so I dont bother with other females...im devoted and totally in love =)
2006-09-20 14:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by TriNStylZ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Yup. Definitely. I would take you out on a date.
2. If I like a girl, I would want to know her personal background and anything else about them. I waited at least 3 months since I had to establish a good friendship with her.
3. How do I let a girl know I like her through my action/facial expression?
4. Nope. Why should I care about what my friends think. I decide if the friend's thought is true and and if it is true to me, it will become a "fact". If my friend thinks otherwise, I will ignore them.
5. No, not really, I would really want the girl to be one on one with me before I ask her out.
2006-09-20 14:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I can't answer those 5 questions cause I'm not a guy, but I will tell you that high school is very important, and that you're right to be dedicated to your school work if you want to get into a good colledge and then make a good income. You don't really need a boyfriend checking other girls out and ignoring your phone calls.
2006-09-20 14:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Ya, you say your pretty and you got a good personality, its mostly a girls personality that makes a guy like them or dislike them.
2. We want to know what they like, what they dislike, what there personality is like, stuff like that; usually we mabye wait a couple days to get to know them better or if we start being there friend before we ask them out we'll usually just stay friends for a while and then ask.
3. Ya, We'll usually make a lot of eye contact and smile at them when they notice us.
4. Most guys yes some of us really don't care what our friends say about girls we like.
5. Yes, there will be plenty of time to talk one-on-one with her after we ask her out so we'll usually just ask before she gets taken.
I hope I helped.
2006-09-20 14:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by JesusFreak 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1. im neither
2.no i just tell them
3. see 2
4. not really
5 no id'e get to know her first
im 14
2006-09-20 14:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋