okay , this guy and I really liked ach other, but one day, he edecided he didn*t like me anymore and when he told me I asked him what I had done wrong. this is what he said:
1) that I signed a note with "love ya" and he thought I meant "I love you"
2) that I was "clingy" because when we walked, we were too close
3)and that " I worried too much" becasue I had asked him what ws wrong with him for two days in a row.
well, too me, these reasons are retarded. but I need to know what it is on a guys point of view
2006-09-20 14:11:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anna =] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's nit picking because of something else - it may be hard to get to the bottom of it, but he's pushing you away for some reason
2006-09-20 14:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think in situations like this the real problem may not be anything that he puts into words. It may or may not have anything to do with you, but it may be he just does not like you because of the way you look, act, talk, treat him, treat others, dress, smell, maybe you are too thin, too fat, too short, too tall. Could be your legs, your hands, your nose, your lips, your hair, your eyes, the way you walk, how you say your words, your friends, your attitude, your knowlege, how much you talk, how little you talk, how much you laugh or don't laugh, the color of your hair, your skin, your family, your parents, your house, your interests, your talents, your outlook on life, your breath, your breasts, your arms, your nails, your feet, and so on. Don't worry about it. The next adorable guy you meet may love all of these things about you.
2006-09-20 21:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I,m with you, his answers are pretty weak, but we all have our personal space and you now know his, also he seems to be indicating it is alright to ask a question once, but then to repeat it is being pushy. Finally he obviously got scared off by the term "love ya!" which personally I think is cool for friends. If you still would like to be friends, I would suggest you acknowledge what he said, then explain why you acted as you did, and what YOUR personal space is, and ask if he is cool about just being friends...Good luck!...
2006-09-20 21:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by mark2zephyr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this dude's got some issues. You might just wanna give him some space then talk to him in couple day's and ask him if he wants to talk about anything. If no, leave him be and find another guy.
2006-09-20 21:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by Ian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a guy, but have an idea-- the guy is just being immature. He is wanting out & just making up stupid excuses
2006-09-20 21:13:16 · answer #5 · answered by from HJ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That guys a joke. He's got the problems. Don't blame yourself.
2006-09-20 21:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by Like Glue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard but...face it sweetie he's not just into you.He's not worth your time.Move on..,find someone else.
Take it easy....Spend more time for yourself.Don't contemplate on that undeserving creature...
Enjoy life.....learn more...
God bless darling.
2006-09-20 21:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by james ian h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is totally trying to distance himself from you because he has someone else jam min his radar. this is his way of (light let down) showing someone that you like them or are curios of their feelings is totally natural so if he is this easy shake-up lose him.
2006-09-20 21:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by whiteursamajor 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well write him another note and tell him that you will give him his space and dont talk to him ..that will show him and then he will be after you in no time...(i promise) thats if he likes you if he dont like you at all then he wont talk to you nomore
2006-09-20 21:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, he is not worth your time.
2006-09-20 21:28:09 · answer #10 · answered by Pete 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋