okay, so about 2 months ago, this guy I know was interested in me and even told me it. He also told me he is really shy and that's why he was so quiet when we'd talk on the phone. I was just getting over another guy, so I didnt really want another guy at tat time. Now that I'm over that guy, I think the other is about teh sweetest guy i';ve ever met and he treats me better than any other guy at my school. We have a lot in common too. The problem is he acts liek he doesn't want to be around me or talk to me. He stopped calling a few weeks ago and doesn't talk to me in the halls anymore. My guy friend told me I should call him tomorrow and drop some hints that are very obvious that I am into him. I'm not so sure. The only time we've talked in about 3 weeks was at a concert when he walked up and said Hey and I said hey and just walked off with my brother. I don't know what I should do...HELP?
2006-09-20 14:06:39 · 6 answers · asked by Dead Barbie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if he's acting that way there has got to be a reason. Call him and ask him what the deal is and tell him that you really so like him. If he doesn;t give you any answers and keeps ignoring you then he's not the person that you should be with. You should not be worrying about him, if he can not pay attention to you then that is his problem not yours. I'm sure that there is some other guy that is interested in you and that would love to spend time with you! If the guy is shy like he says then you have to be the one who makes the move. Even if he is shy, he should still be able to talk to you about what is wrong if he is really in to you.
2006-09-20 14:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by lem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you like him... Tell him that when he told you that he liked you, you were still getting over the other guy... But now you're over him...
The Truth is Always Best, if you can Swing it...
But once you've let him know, it's his move... Don't chase after him too much, or you might end up being hurt... But do let him know how you feel, and hopefully he'll make the next move...
2006-09-20 21:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by Corandero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK either this guy has moved on or his feelings are hurt. You have to gain back his trust. Call him to push to far though. Drop tiny hints that your intersted.
(Hope things work out for u)
2006-09-20 21:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by catfeet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already "rejected" him in the past, so he gave up. If you want to pursue him now, you will have to first win back his trust.
2006-09-20 21:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you put him off... hes shy and dosent want to be rejected so let him know how u feel and if he dosent come around well... keep looking k??!!
2006-09-20 21:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by blazer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...ok...no...yes..watever...itz not mii life
2006-09-20 21:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by JabbaWockee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋