Why do you guys keep your emotions all bottled inside untill you finally explode and get mad at the one person who never doubted you or raised there voice or even said that you where worthless. 'Cause my byf Eric exploded today and start yelling at me for no reason and said I make him feel worthless when I never once said that and said I judged him because he was goth which isn't true. Are all guys like this or just him? Please give me some help and he's older than me.
2006-09-20 14:05:10 · 6 answers · asked by outlandishb13 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And I always am patient with him and look him in the eye and tell him that I love him and I awlays told him to tell me the truth in fact when he's not mad he says that I'm the only person who understands him
2006-09-20 14:35:37 · update #1
Men tend to keep their emotions bottled up inside of them. In society, men are taught that it is not "manly" to express emotion. When a man finally comes to a breaking point, they will take it out on the person who is closest to them because they actually trust in you and the fact that you won't leave them.
2006-09-20 15:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not just him pretty much alot of guys are like that. soo.... yeah... but ALL or MOST of the guys i know all bottle it up inside and wait a LONG time b4 letting it explode. which is stupid why can't they be like us girls and not keep it on the inside and just let it out like right when it happens thefore its done and over with right then and there!? lol
2006-09-21 01:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Tyson Ritter♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is just plain stupid. your BF is a time-bomb! for my buddies and me, we would openly trash each other if there are some arguments between us but shortly after that, all the heavy load on our hearts will be gone and we will sort of "kiss and make up".
personally, i think most guys, if we have problems with each other, we would voice it out but for most girls, you guys will keep it inside until it blows up one day.
no, not all guys are like your bf, maybe just a few!
2006-09-20 23:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by immortal1983 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like that...from what i hear from girls, some of em dun like to hear honest opinions...they rather the guy lies, tis is true! When a person is angry, they dun think straight. If u din do anything wrong..than i suggest u talk to him upfront abt it.
2006-09-20 21:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like some other girl messed him up or shitt on him when he was opening up or being truthful about something - slow him down and listen to what he's saying, be patient and tell him that you love him (if you do) - he has to realize that you are on his side and that you don't want to hurt him
2006-09-20 21:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because someone in the past betrayed him to the point he cant tell a person his feeling or he might think you dont care about his thoughts
2006-09-20 21:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by terror_squad2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋