Theres tis girl I really like and want to start knowing her better. The only problem is, when I see her, I can't even make eye contact with her. Her eyes are glued to the ground and doesnt feel comfortable talking with anyone but her friends. I have her in one of my classes. But because its calculus, I cant exactly get up and walk over to her. So..........i'm stuck.
2006-09-20 13:54:51 · 11 answers · asked by stephenjlb 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stary out with a wink everytime you pass, then just say hello and start talking....ROB
2006-09-20 13:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Catch her out of class and start by asking a calculus question. Then lead into some general non threatening open ended questions. Do not ask closed questions that only need a yes / no answer. Draw her out with topics you know will be easy to reply to and sit beside her, not in front so that at this meeting, she does not have to make eye contact, and can relax and enjoy the conversation. Speak slowly and pause... now and then... giving her the opportunity to do the same, thus avoiding getting tongue tied and mixing up her words...
2006-09-20 21:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by mark2zephyr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you better do it the suttle way. So after the class just walk up to her and ask for help in Calculus. That would be a starting point. Maybe ask her to meet with you after class to seek help in calculus. Keep it gentle and in a soft voice. Be sensitive and do not bee to aggressive. Ask her interest and hobbies and family background and work your way up there. But be sincere if you like this girl because chances are if she likes you it's for keeps. Good luck!
2006-09-20 20:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by George S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make up any dumb excuse to talk to her. like buy some funny looking eraser and ask her to inspect ur pencil before u use it, she'll know ur just making an excuse to talk to her, and she'll b flattered, laugh and say sure if she likes u, and if she doesnt, she'll say no thanks and it was just a cute joke for the class. shy people like it when u head off the conversations, say somethign random and ask her what she thinks about it "i like cheese" *raises eyebrow* if u get her to laugh she'll be more comfortable around u, then maybe u can tickle her and tell her u wont stop until she lets u see her pritti eyes
haha~ good luck â¥
2006-09-20 21:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
become one of her friends. Slowly, start saying hello to her when she comes to class or leaving class. When you see in the halls, say hi and ask her a question. Every day, figure out another way, to talk to her or another question to ask. After awhile, she will be comfortable talking to you too and it won't be so hard. Good luck!
2006-09-21 19:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by cee cee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry man u'll get her if u really love her. Love starts with a small step and eventually becomes something greater and better than u would ever expect.
2006-09-20 21:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by Victor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach her like a friend, ask her for a pen , a paper..Ask her how much she got on the test,ask her about the material.Being confident, gentle and friendly will make her really relaxed while talkin with you.I had exactly the same problem man with the same course heheh i swear, but thats how i got over it ..try it pal its worth it..goodluck
2006-09-20 21:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try lunch or in the halls. just try to talk to her. make her relise that u want to get to know her better and that u dont want to hurt her. if shes shy then it wont be easy but it can be done. im shy at times but sometimes im not. its hard to tell when i will be and when i wont. hope i helped. good luck!!!!
2006-09-20 20:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by rurouni_kikyo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can phone her or ask her friends where she live so you could talk... you better get started she got a crush on you!!! you could write her in a letter tell her what you feel and ask for a reply okay!!!
2006-09-20 20:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by yna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find her locker put a note with your e-mail in it and make sure it says to e-mail me
2006-09-20 21:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋