i like girls but i'am seeing a man i do not love him but i love girls and i'am looking for that girl do i let him go
2006-09-20 13:52:12 · 17 answers · asked by mmmgood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why don't you just have the best of both worlds?
2006-09-20 13:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by loveholio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We started out with an Adam & Eve, not an Adam & Adam or an Eve & Eve. There's a reason other than sex that there are male and female. It's a natural fit.
Sounds to me like you may have been molested at some time and your sexual maturity level leveled off at early teen years. The shock of molestation can trigger chemical changes in the brain that causes a person's social maturity to "freeze" at a specific level of social interaction.
You are being deceitful to all men and dishonest to yourself. Seek counseling treatment before you head down a pathway that is often dangerous and always unhappy. Suicide among the gay community is extreemely high for that reason.
Cary Grant was living a gay lifestyle, protected by the movie studios. They made him marry women to keep up his image. His first wife suggested he try LSD, which at that time was undergoing tests by the US govt. He did, and he said that the sexual impulses toward men stopped because of his treatments.
I'm not suggesting you do anything along this line on your own, but there are treatments far gentler but just as effective. If you are determined to go this route, do not look back with regret. Just make it clear to ALL how you stand and accept the consequences of your actions and choices.
2006-09-20 20:54:15 · answer #2 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Free Free Set Them Free!If You Love Somebody Then Set Them Free,If They Love You Then They Will Come Back To You.Then You Will Know,If He Can Make You Happy.
2006-09-20 21:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason why you should keep going out with him any more if you are using him and you don't like him at all. That is just really mean to do that to a guy that does nothing but like you! I think that is very wrong to treat him like that! I hope he finds out and dumps you first!!!!!!! What ever girl!!!! figure it out on your own, you are the one who got yourself into this!!!!!!
2006-09-20 21:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by kewi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like girls and you don't love him, just break up with him! Look for a girl.
2006-09-20 20:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by sunflower222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's the right thing to do. Be true to who you are because it's the only thing that matters. He'll get over it, he's a big boy. Besides, he would probably (or should) tell you the same thing if he knew.
Good Luck!
2006-09-20 20:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by MsLongBeach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would buy a pet puss y, go the way you want to in life, is not a rehearsal there is no second chance .often discretion is a skill that needs to be learnt
hope you can figure what im trying to say
2006-09-20 20:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should. You are living a lie and making him live one too.
You need to be honest both with him and yourself, after all it may be ok with him. Could be he doesn't want to be Mr. Right but Mr. Right Now is ok.
2006-09-20 20:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by Larry T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is serious about you he has the right to know you don't feel the same way BUT he does not need to know with whom you are attracted to. Be honest about your feelings for him, but don't explain every urge or desire for another- it's none of his business.
2006-09-20 20:57:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from a heterosexual, male point of view, yes. Let him go. Be good to him and let him go.
2006-09-20 20:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by samaustinashlee_billiewjr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont lead him on.
the longer you do the more it will hurt him when you do end it.
stop seeing him and meet some girls.
it will end up making you a lot happier.
2006-09-20 20:56:33 · answer #11 · answered by kt_thoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋