i just found out that my best friend likes the same guy i do and she is trying to win him over. She has bigger boobs .
How can i win this guy over?
2006-09-20 13:47:36 · 21 answers · asked by Luv Bug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Show him your boobs.
-Ryan
2006-09-20 13:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by mycarpultunnel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, some guys are idiots and are not serious and they would go for the bigger boobs, but a guy who is really interested in you would not look at these factors. you guys are best friends, you guys should not make this into a competition, otherwise why are you two best friends? I don't think you are adult enough to look at this in a mature way, but if you both are really young it's unlikely that this guy is serious, so please save your friendship and be yourself to win him, try asking himm out first, you have nothing to lose. whether you or your friend get him this should not have an impact on your friendship. Goodluck!
2006-09-20 20:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are best friends, why fight over a guy?
Friends should always come before boys. Boys are temporary, if you two are fighting over the guy, I am pretty sure you're nowhere near 18.
I mean, honestly, is he worth all the attention? He'll feel like this big, cool, sexy guy because the two of you are ruining a best friendship for him.
In the end, you'll both end up hurt. I think you should either let her have him and move on or talk to her about both of you moving on to other guys so it doesn't break your friendship.
Be the bigger person.
2006-09-20 20:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find someone else, leave your friend with the guy.....and if she has big boobs like you said, he'll probably choose her, trust me most guys only see that in a girl....And besides I don't think it's worth losing a friend over a guy that probably doesn't deserve it.....So just step aside and if your friend manages to get him then feel happy for her, and don't worry if he was meant for you then time will tell, but in the meantime just let him go! There are plenty of fish in the sea, and remember that it's very hard to find good friends, and if she's really a good friend, let her keep the guy, or just let him decide what to do!! Good Luck
2006-09-20 21:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares if she has bigger boobs. just be nice to him and when he needs to talk something out be there for him. just because ur friend has bigger boobs then u do doesnt mean she will get every guy she wants. lige just isnt like that. so just be his friend for now ok? and maybe in a week or 2 ask him out. u seem like a nice girl so i bet he will say yes. hope i helped. l8er
2006-09-20 20:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by rurouni_kikyo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man is worth ruining a friendship over.
I repeat....No man or woman is worth ruining a friendship over.
If you really want to get him, then just be yourself. Do not pretend to be something you are not. It will blow up in your face every time. If he likes the bigger boobs then he will go for girls like that no matter who they are.
2006-09-20 20:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by Sherry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to win him for yourself. One trick is to always approach him, and be EXTRA flirty, and always compliment him, and ask him always how HE'S doing, and how HE feels. It'll feel as though the world evolves around him for awhile, but when you get the guy, you'll be patting yourself in the back.
2006-09-20 20:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by forest_without_sounds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright first off just be nice to him kind things don't go unknowticed
just say hi whenever you see him chat with him you know that kind of thing. and Just tell him how you feel bout him if he says he likes you then it works out if not then you cant force him to like you.... Thats what i say.
2006-09-20 21:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he did not notice u he did not desrve ur love ... boobs has nothing with win a guy' heart
2006-09-20 20:50:14 · answer #9 · answered by Marco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about this guy u should not let a guy get in between ur friendship with ur best friend
2006-09-20 20:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by Christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the first move! i went through this same situation, except, now, im married and she now is a single mother because of her breasts....if this guy is for you, he wont care about ur cup size
.... its no big deal, boys will come and go.....the real question is, which one will stay?
2006-09-20 20:55:08 · answer #11 · answered by Mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋