It sounds really cool. But it seems that all girls want a serious relationship. How do i bring up the subject without gettin slapped?
2006-09-20 13:37:18 · 19 answers · asked by m deal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you might want to look for an older woman, 35 and up.usually, they tend to have busier schedules and family commitment's (kid's, hobbies,...etc), so, they are more receptive to a "friends w/bennies" type of relationship, because they just don't have the time to commit to a full blown relationship. when you can hook up, you hook up.
women also, tend to be more in touch with their sexuality as they mature. they don't hold as close the mores they were taught when they were young.
don't get me wrong, i'm not saying that all older women are loose............lol. on the contrary, there still has to be a connection. i'm just saying that a lot of older women that i know, are good with themselves in a sexual way. they aren't as uptight with having a physical relationship with someone when the actual time they get to spend together is limited.....................
2006-09-20 14:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by tg315 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By not bringing it up at all.
Here are my ideas:
1) Date several girls at the same time. Let them know that you're not really up for a "relationship"... see which ones continue it past the 3rd date and have sex with you...
2) Find a "pro". Give her money. Don't complain. Spoil yourself becuase you really WILL get what you pay for. Be safe and sane about it.
3) Go the "sugar daddy" route.... basically the same as "pro" but done more thru barter and gifts which women who don't think they're "that kind" of woman.
2006-09-20 13:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can only speak for myself but when I search for a buddy, I search for someone who is mature enough not to us the word F for every sentence he speaks. Two. I make sure he understands that I too don t want a serious relationship. Whatever happened to step by step? As for slapping, I don t do slapping. Do you?
2006-09-20 13:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lois L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not hard to find a girl like that, just lower your standards, most girls I've had relationships like that with; were usually messed up in one way or another. And many times they want to turn it into more than sex. Thats when you run.
Either way ugly or hot it still takes some work...and I think there is some luck involved in it too.
2006-09-20 13:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by mrdream3333 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can buy a f*** buddy at your local bad neighborhood corner. That will surely prevent you from being slapped, unless you ask for it specifically.
2006-09-20 13:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
EASY......they're called PROSTITUTES! That's what they're there for. Oh and what's wrong with wanting to be in a relationship? It's obvious that you still have a lot of growing up to do so it's better off that you stick with HANNAH (HAND) AND PALMA (PALM) - get it? GOOD!!!!!!!
2006-09-20 13:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by albert 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, this actually doesn't sound cool. If this is really all you want be your own personal buddy.
2006-09-20 13:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by Monie D 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Let's start with the buddy part....do you even have a buddy?....conversation eventually turns to sex....just let her know its been awhile and you need sex but don't need committment. Then shut up and listen...........................
2006-09-20 14:06:13 · answer #8 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl, be friends and then take it to another level.
2006-09-20 13:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by DiG iT 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In bed after a long ******* session.
2006-09-20 13:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋