So my ex just broke up with her bf a couple of weeks ago and I wanted to start hanging out/be friends again. Our break up was on good terms and we remained friends (just not hanging out type). Im not going to lie, I miss her. I want to start hanging out again and take things farther. How can I go about doing this? Would just calling out of nowhere (like tonight) and seeing what shes up to/if she wants to go play minigolf (or whatever) seem like "oh he so wants me back" to her? Also I don't really have any groups of friends that she could probably fit in with (they're drinkers and she's not). This first "hangout session" just feels like the big "first impression" all over again to me.
I know she's my ex and yes part of me thinks Im crazy for trying, but the other half of me thinks I'd be crazy not to try.
And honestly (unless Im doing it wrong) just "asking" her to start dating again and telling her how I feel doesn't work.
2006-09-20 13:30:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should tell her how you feel. If you're too shy, what i did last time is that i call my secret admire. Sometime i wrote letter and e-mail. But i can say, talk to her in person sure has the edge and more advantage.
Love is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. and no rush. Girls look at 2 things, handsome and good personality. You know what handsome is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve.
All the best to u.
2006-09-20 13:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a friend first to see where her mind is-she maynot be ready to jump into something right now. Keep it totally casual- you can still go out in a group and not drink-Im a drinker and my best friend isnt and we go out all the time.Good luck
2006-09-20 20:46:04 · answer #2 · answered by Pretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ask her out on a date one night, but I wouldn't do it so soon after her last break-up. It would look like you were waiting for her to break-up so you could have her back. If you wanted to be really romantic (but face major humiliation if she rejected you) you could just show up at her door and not call her at all.
2006-09-20 20:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know till you ask!Just may be she wants you back,also,I have an ex who I am still friends with and he tells me all the time he wants me back in his life and sometimes I think about how it would be!Life is short,she just may have needed to date someone else to relize how special you are to her!Just do it and let me know!
2006-09-20 20:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by happy1here♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have laid her few times.....move on to greener pastures...there are many girls out there crying out aloud for an experinced man.!
2006-09-20 20:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow and just hang out first!!!
2006-09-20 20:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never know unless you ask her. Ask her...maybe she might want to also:) Good Luck
2006-09-20 20:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody wants to read long ****** Q , dam people need to whrite short ones
2006-09-20 20:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋