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Why is it so important to you to lower yourselves, with the way you dance and dress and the promiscuity; all to impress or attract these low life men who do not have an ounce of respect for you? Do you really know what you are Worth?
I just want to know.

2006-09-20 13:25:58 · 30 answers · asked by jimmy 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

I'm a black man who lives and dies for my black women, but the behavior is making me sick. By men and women.

2006-09-20 13:28:49 · update #1

I don't care about white women. Let them f*** dogs and donkeys. I don't want to see you doing the same.

2006-09-20 13:30:06 · update #2

For everyone who answered in an educated way thank you. Being a lover of black women, sometimes I feel as if I'm the only one that's pissed off about this. For those who just threw insults look inside yourself.

2006-09-20 14:54:18 · update #3

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I am in my early thirties and I understand exactly what you are saying and I agree with it 100%. I would like to add something too. One of the most beautiful things about black women historically has been our virtue. We made a man work for it or he had to marry us to get it. Over the last five years especially, I have seen the morals and ethics of our young sistahs go down in flames. If you want men to start treating you with respect you have to be respectful. Leave something to the imagination, make them work for it!! They may leave to go to the woman that will give it up, but when they want a wife and mother of thier children, they choose the one that they can trust and respect.

2006-09-20 14:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by 2fine4u 6 · 1 0

Women of all races do that these days. I see what you mean though. Those girls who do it are the lowest of the low and cheap and real sad. The sickest part is they think they got the power when they act like sluts around men. Wait til they get drugged or raped because of it, let's see who got the power then.

Women are real stupid sometimes. The way they give men a free show and lead them on. It's almost like I want to put on a niqab just to demonstrate against it.

When will they realize that no men will respect them as a person that way? They'll only drool over them and think dirty.
I find it important and quite obvious that men need to respect women more, and it won't happen when women keep acting like whores, do all for money as well (and sometimes nowadays just for the fun of it, sick!).

2006-09-20 13:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by Magnuna 4 · 0 0

I think if a women has to dress,dance or act a certain way to get a man then she obviously has no respect for herself. So if she has no respect for herself then that is the type of man that she'll attract someone else that doesn't care about her and is only after one thing. I know that I am worth alot and if a man can't respect me and treat me the way I should be treated then I don't need him. Not saying that i need a man to take care of me because I can do that myself. But I won't put up with a man who disrespects me and treats me wrong. (25 year old black female)

2006-09-20 13:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

As a Black woman I am very disturbed that you can make an *** of yourself and ASSUME that all black women are this way. My good friends are all educated, and dress like professionals. Maybe you should read a book or educate yourself before you open your mouth. I have seen some NASTY caucasian, asian, brown and whatever else woman that do the exact same thing, so instead of saying black woman, why don't you acknowledge ALL women that lower their standards.

This world would be a better place if the uneducated would crawl in a hole never come out.

2006-09-20 13:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 1

dear mr man, being a white chick, i have no interest in F--king you, any donkeys or dogs, I have friends who are bi-racial, and black, they wouldnt want you either youre waht they would class as a creep, in fact I even think youre white pretending to be black. If you are black, you have a lot of issues, or are a relgious extremeist. So should all these beautiful balck queens put on a long dress, have female circumcision - and come and be one of your many wifes??? That way they'd be 'decent'. I understand what you are saying about morals, - but who are you to judge GOD?

2006-09-20 13:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by Mercy J 2 · 0 0

I am a substitute teacher and let me tell you that it is not just black "girls" who are lowering themselves with provacative dress and dance. I think that the females of today are emulating the clothing and the gyrating from the images that are portrayed in their music and movies. In my day the worst influence on us was Madonna and the 2 live crew.

If you are looking for women, just to give you a hint they are the ones covered up and holding it down everyday at work and in their homes.

2006-09-20 13:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First off, all black women are not like that. So you need to stop stereotyping us. Just because you see women like that on the music videos or in movies, respectable women are not like that! So before you speak on something you see on TV, I suggest you get your facts straight! I bet you are one of those ugly geeky guys, that cant get a beautiful strong black female, so you want to talk down about us! Go get a life, and get that d**k out of your a**!

2006-09-20 13:34:46 · answer #7 · answered by Ty 2 · 0 0

This guy has a crush on a young black girl and he sees how she dresses to try and impress the guys that he sees as low life's.
In a warped way he seems to be complimenting the young ladies, he just doesn't understand the proper etiquette for it.

2006-09-20 13:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by ldp88 2 · 0 0

Jimmy, you should be ashamed of yourself. Not all black women are like you describe. What about you guys who wear your drawers down around your hips, showing off your not so cool underwear, or all the tatoo's you have! If you see someone who doesn't dress or act to your standards, maybe you should look away. Oh, sorry you did say for "black women only"? Sorry I'm colored blind!

2006-09-20 13:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 1 0

Why is this just about young black women you are asking about?. Young white women wear their jeans down to the *** crack and show boobs for days. Some young people in general think this is sexy,not just black women. What were you thinking? Where did you get your facts. Do you not think young white,hispanic, asian girls are not having sex?

2006-09-20 13:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by ROCKY5 2 · 0 0

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