he comes to a program stoned, then smokes dope. He refuses anyones help including mine. I am tired of i told him to get General Relief, he said he was going to, I gave him a bus token, he never did go to General Relief.
2006-09-20 13:16:40 · 20 answers · asked by tstanfield 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump his loserass
2006-09-20 13:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump him. This is coming from someone who used to smoke weed. He will not, I'll say it again for emphasis, HE WILL NOT quit until he's wants to. No.....he won't quit for you and he really shouldn't 'cause it doesn't work like that. If he doesn't want to stop nothing or nobody can change that. The best thing you can do is to leave him and maybe (and that's a big maybe) he'll take another look at himself and reconsider to stop. Usually though it takes someone to hit rock bottom to make any changes. What I mean is that it may take unemployment, poor health, or something major enough to cause a person to reevaluate his or hers' life in order to start making changes. Fortunately for me it wasn't to hard to quit once I made my mind up. I stopped smoking dope the very day I decided to and never once relapsed. It took repeated efforts though to quit cigarettes. What does that tell you? I've been clean of all those nasty habits for well over 8 years now. You may e-mail me if you like and I'll give a little more insight into how I was able to do it.
2006-09-20 13:46:17 · answer #2 · answered by c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should consider finding another boyfriend, or just come to the conclusion that he will make the changes when he is ready. Could be that the more you bother him the more he rebels. You could just avoid being around him when he is stoned, if it bothers you that much. One thing is you have made the choice to be his girlfriend, sometimes you have to ask yourself is this the right choice for me?
2006-09-20 13:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by preshus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should dump him. He's going down a road that you don't want him to and if he's refussing help it's even worse. Maybe dumping him will knock some sense into him. Hope this helps
2006-09-20 13:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to "save" him. If he doesn't want to get help and you can't stand him high, then leave him. Maybe when you're not around anymore he'll realize what he lost and finally kick the habit.
2006-09-20 13:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
good luck sweetie! it'll b a year clean 4 me pretty soon, the only way i stopped was because i was ready, & very luckey to have lived through it. i'm here if u need me.
2006-09-20 13:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by joe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some insurance on him about a 100,000 dollar policy and just sit back and wait.
2006-09-20 13:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump him. Life is full of problems, but you don't need this one. Remember, your dealing with the drug, not the person. It is up to him to get his act together, not anyone else.
2006-09-20 13:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him alone then. Sounds like it's time to move on!
2006-09-20 13:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by Workinmamma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what's best for you whatever that might be. This is something you need to work out on your own.
2006-09-20 13:19:48 · answer #10 · answered by KEY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well angel your magic is not working.how did you end up with this one.you may be angel but you are not god.concentrate on your own treatment and let god do the rest.dump him
2006-09-20 13:20:48 · answer #11 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋