Now I ain't never had a relationship, yeh some good looking girls have liked me but then there friends start roumers bout' i'm a bad person and I hate women (WHICH IS A LIE!) and yeh I almost had one but some catz from my block messed it up for me... and I unno should I give up on love, is there really someone out there for me, or is it that theres no one for me? I need answers I don't understand :(
2006-09-20 13:14:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is someone out there for u. u just havent found her yet. u need someone who wont listen to those rumers spead about u from their friends. u will find someone dont worry. there is someone out there for everyone so there is a girl out there for u too. u just havent found her thats all.
2006-09-20 13:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by rurouni_kikyo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries, love will find you.
You can help it a bit by going into a different place, move to a different city, go to a different school or job, live somewhere else. And there behave a bit different than you did before. People are spreading rumors for all kinds of reasons and you do not want to give those reasons again. Try to be as good as you can be. This will impress people and some girl will find you. Actually it will happen to you the moment you are not desperately looking any more. When you relax on it.
The best way to not be desperately looking is perhaps to involve very seriously into something else. How about....some volunteer work to help people in need? Elderly people or poor people, there are always so many who need help. You can find such opportunities with or without a church connected.
That would be a radical change for you and show you a very different side of life. And bring you in touch with a lot of new people who would see the good in you.
2006-09-20 20:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by spaceskating_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not! Don't give up just because of some malicious actions from others. They really aren't your friends. Believe that there is someone out there for you. It may not be happening fast enough for you now, but It will happen. And no one will be able to take it from you. If you are truly a good person these "good looking girls" will see who you really are. Just by talking with you and knowing you they will see what is the truth.
Never give up on love. Never! Because, frankly, love hasn't given up on you.
2006-09-20 20:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! You should NEVER give up on love. Just because the "right" person isn't coming to you right away doesn't mean you should give up. It sounds corny, but you really shouldn't. Just wait and see what happens. The right person will eventually come along. In five minutes, five years, or five decades--you will find the right person.
2006-09-20 20:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had a answer for you. I lost my soulmate in a motorcycle accident 5 yrs ago and it is hard to believe that I will find another. I have been dating but it seems like no one wants a real relationship.
2006-09-20 20:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, if you give up on finding love, then you are giving up on yourself. Give it time. Are you still in school? You have a lot of time ahead of you. Enjoy being young and single. Yeah, it might not be what you want at this point, but like I said, " Give it time."
2006-09-20 20:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask again after you turn 30. you seem like you are maybe 12-16 years old by the way you type, dont expect love to hit so soon and often. everything will fall into place evantually.
2006-09-20 20:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by gesswh0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't help ya, other than to say -take one day at a time maybe your hormones are racing and you could just be horny. Doctors order- take a cold shower, eat a cookie, and stop boring us with your obscene questions.
2006-09-20 20:19:06 · answer #8 · answered by No 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was on the verge of giving up before i found my gf who i couldnt be any happier with...you just gotta keep your head up high and just dont give up because you never know when that perfect someone will fall right into your lap.....i know from experience
2006-09-20 20:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by confusedude529 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg you are so stupid never give up on love, even if those ********** boys make fun of you talk to them and tell them that they should stop it. if not working talk to the girl personally and tell them you are not a bad person. never give up on love cause that is mostly the point of life. the reason we are on this planet and our main reason is to reproduce.
2006-09-20 20:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by TnT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋