Ok read my first question otherwise it won't make sense.
I did it. I practically pushed him on the bed, but he stripped me. It was amazing. His penis is HUGE! I'd never given my body to anyone like that before. He did all the work.
Today I found a note from him next to my head. This is what it said. I fell apart.
"Sara-
You have an amazing body, but that was the worst sex ever. You didn't do anything! Love is all about sex isn't it? So do you think you could work it. I'm not mad. Normally I wouldn't care, you have huge ****. But really, don't make me do ALL the work! I'm better off masturbating!
I ain't stickin around if that's how things are gonna go!
-Josh"
I could not believe his nerve to write me that letter. But what if I did try? I enjoyed it so much! Would I get more pleasure? My heart says to dump him. But my mind and body say "He's talented in bed. Don't lose him!" I know love isn't all about sex. But he's amazing. He's a great guy too. Advice?
2006-09-20 12:58:31 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, I read and answered your first question and now for this one, I would dump his sorry but, Yes his tool might be big but you know there are alot of others too, and that was very rude and a jerk of him. Tell him to get a life and you can find someone else. Good luck.
2006-09-20 13:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he needs to be tied up, spanked, and made to watch you with a REAL man.
Just kidding. Sort of. Once a guy told me that I was "too loud" (because I moaned, and not like he shared his house with anyone). I had a nice little revenge fantasy go thru MY head for sure!
I'm sure it's apparent that he is completley wrong for you.
If you like the feeling of being "taken" and "submitting" or being the passive one... you might consider exploring that further with a man who can do that for you and who takes PLEASURE in being assertive (obviously, your current boy does not).
It's possible to love someone from afar, as friends, intensely... and know that they aren't the "one".
2006-09-20 13:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on, a guy that says those kind of things to a girl is not worth it.....so he actually thinks he's doing you a favour by being with you?? Show him that you don't care, and let him go.....You're better off without him, find someone who truly appreciates you and who doesn't say those kind of things to you, a real gentleman doesn't say those things......He's an As*hole......Good Luck and get over that creep!!
2006-09-20 14:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sara, forgive me for saying this, but my advice would be for you to dump him!!!!!!!!!! Frankly you are much too nice a person than to be stuck up with a jerk like him. He is nothing more than a stuck up, egotistical individual who thinks that his needs are more important than your own feelings and values. Be yourself, and for goodness sake, don't be a tease. Otherwise in the future this may occur again.
2006-09-20 13:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by kravitz44 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really need that then go for it and show him how good you can be, blow his freekin mind. But you obviously wouldn't want to be involved with him cause he is a top notch disrespectful jerk. You definitely don't need to be in a relationship with someone who is already treating you like that. Just imagine how that would be. If he's THAT good just keep all feelings out of it.
2006-09-20 13:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you may understand is that pornography is a parasite that could suck the life precise out of a marriage. You husband has an habit, a ailment and he's on the element now the place he needs to hunt for expert help besides as religious help. Pornography is form of a parasite that latches directly to someone's spirit and eats away at their morality and integrity. over the years pornography has ruined dissimilar lives and destroyed dissimilar marriages. My suggestion to you is to take a seat collectively with your husband and locate him some expert help or suggestions for his concern. right now I additionally invite the two one in each of you to ask God into your life and your marriage. regardless of while you're conscious of it or no longer, your husband is now in contact in a conflict of religious war. i'm no longer attempting to sound like a spiritual enthusiast or something yet I could call it out for what it is. devil is attempting to earnings administration of your husbands' techniques and spirit by using pornography. think of roughly it. you have mentioned your self, that interior and hour of much less, of having reliable intercourse, your husband ran to the internet for greater porn, which in trouble-free terms is going to coach that this concern isn't approximately actual success, yet rather a "lustful", "religious" habit. earlier God created the church, He created the employer of marriage by using putting Adam and Eve collectively. or perhaps from the commencing up of time devil replaced into there to create chaos and confusion in the marriage. I pray which you hearken to my suggestion and get expert besides as religious counseling on your husband. Peace and God bless.
2016-12-12 11:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your ego get in the way of a great relationship. Take time to think about things clearly and decide what you want. If you want to be with him then talk to him about what happened and decide what the two of you can do to make things better.
2006-09-20 13:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
did you say "great guy"? r u serious? A great guy would not even go there. what kinda trashy mf is he. girl, that took nerve, and you don't deserve that. Love is a special thing, when all else is gone, love is what keeps us going, what us girls got, is a prize, and he just disrespected that. he doesn't deserve for you to do any work. Tell him to go masterbate, cause thats all he's gonna get.
2006-09-20 13:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by aswingerof2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all, if he disrespects you like that, why stay with him? he said your not good in bed with him, so that means he only wanted you for sex. making love is about both partners feelings, not just one. find a guy that will treat you right..you can learn to be a better lover with any one
2006-09-20 13:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by Angel_Anton 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not about how the sex is...Find a guy that you really like and not just in bed. Who the **** cares abour sex. They'll get better at it anyways.
2006-09-20 13:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋