ok theres this kid in my school his name is Bradley hes really cute but he has this small bald spot behind his head and today he asked me out out but i turn him down,my friend asked me why i told her because he has a bald spot on his head.but she said that it was his birth mark,now i feel really bad because my friends boyfriend told bradley wat i said,wat should i do now because i dont want to hurt his fellings
2006-09-20 12:33:37 · 13 answers · asked by kim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
News Flash! You've already hurt his feelings! You could try apologizing. He may accept it, then again, he may not. Put yourself in his shoes. How would you feel if you found out that he said he wouldn't ask you out 'cuz you have a big nose? I don't want to be cruel honey, but next time THINK before you speak.
2006-09-20 12:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by Gemma S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 1 you should not be so hung up on looks. It really is shallow. I know that is easier said than done, but seriously, that was mean. But tell him you made a snap judgment, tell him you weren't trying to hurt, you were just a lil preoccupied. But reconsider you're answer, if you like him, go out with him. You could have just turned down the love of your life over hair. (or the lack there of)
2006-09-20 12:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by Goergia (George For Short) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well kim you already hurt his feelings when his friend told him what you said. That was very shallow and mean of you to do that. Its not whats on the outside that counts,,,its whats on the inside...and you really need to grow up more before you go out with anyone. You really need to apologize to him.And in the future dont talk about people like that. That wasnt very nice at all.
2006-09-20 12:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date him
2006-09-20 12:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by big daddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already hurt his feelings. Do what you would want someone to do if they said something hurtful about you. Swallow your pride, tell him that was an insensitive thing to do and then try talking to him. You might not want to date him still but you could end up with a friend out of this.
2006-09-20 12:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jason S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't care about looks. When you're 70 YOU might be the one with the bald spot
2006-09-20 12:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's a bit too late to worry about hurting his feelings! Just go over to him, apologise and tell him that if the offer is still open, you'd love to go out with him and let him decide.
2006-09-20 12:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by yes darling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already hurt his feelings by turning him down - seems kind of shallow to not go out with someone for a tiny thing like that - you said he's really cute and yet you turned him down?
2006-09-20 12:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go up to him and apologize. that was pretty rude to say no to someone just because he has a small bald spot. my friend has leukemia and is going bald. what if that was happening to him? be careful what you say to people and know what your talking about....
2006-09-20 12:37:13 · answer #9 · answered by Sen10r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your not that superficial and that you would like to go out with him ! You were just keeping up your gaurd up cause, you really do like him !
2006-09-20 12:37:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋