2006-09-20 12:32:35 · 34 answers · asked by Andyr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ego, Ego, Ego. Pump his maleness, in all the traditional ways. Fluff the peacock, and he will flutter!
Seriously - talk to him, smile at him and look into his eyes when you do. Touch his arm, laugh when he says something even remotely funny, and fish for compliments from him. Ask how he likes your hair, etc.
Eventually he'll come out of his shell because you make him feel good, and comfortable.
Please be careful. If you use what I've told you here to hurt him, it'll be a long time before he trusts you again.
2006-09-20 12:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex- works for most guys. Nothing breaks the old ice barrier like a little humpty-bump. Think of it as a way of encouraging his inner expression, but if he is still shy afterwards it means he is gay.
2006-09-20 12:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by RHJ Cortez 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok i am a girl who has been like you say in a shell so to speak! this is how i have come out of mine to learn to love and trust people! First of all get to know them well,second of all be open and honest with them,last but not least take things slow and easy!
2006-09-20 12:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shy guys just need a little motivation and confidence. Be reasuring and boost his selfconfidence and he should be fine.
2006-09-20 12:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men or not shy! sometimes we are afraid to show how we truly feel cause of being hurt! it is very painful for a man to get his heart broke! anyway you must make him feel comfortable around you! be honest!
2006-09-20 12:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him smoke a lil weed and have a drink lol he wont be shy anymore and give him the best sex he ever had in his life the guy will be speaking in tounges after that give him confidence tell him he is cool it works trust me
2006-09-20 12:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by pancamo25 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You help him. Slowly help build his confidence through reassurance, acceptance, encouragement. Ask his friends to help to.
A simple "Thanks", "That's great" in what he is doing will go a long way. But it takes patience.
It is either that or you join his environment. He don't break out but you break in.
2006-09-20 12:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by thanthos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
him open up to you or him opening up to every body? If it is to you. Just ask him question after question and after a few days depending on your age get him a little tipsy he will trust by then.
2006-09-20 12:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by Classico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta get really friendly with him they will not talk until you can get to know them cuz they usually are not comfortable around people they dont know so if you become friendly with him he will get to know you better making him a little less shy
2006-09-20 12:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
With a 5 lb. hammer.
2006-09-20 12:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋