I love this guy, okay? I mean like serious love... I am desperate to get him back, I know somewhere he still loves me too. I cheated on him once, I was drunk off my *** and wasn't thinkin'. I know, call me what you want, but I am serious. I made a mistake and I regret it. He knows about it and was still keeping me...It's three months later and he's saying he doesn't trust me. I didn't do **** after cheatingon him. Any advice to get him and his trust back?
2006-09-20 12:31:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Eh, not really much you can do... I could never trust my ex after she banged around on me no matter what she did.
2006-09-20 12:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by Andy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing you can do - once you've cheated, he will always have a doubt about what you say, what you do, who you hang with, etc - being drunk is not an excuse for cheating - you shouldn't have put yourself in the situation where you had an opportunity to cheat - sounds like you were hanging out with the wrong person and doing he wrong thing and you got the wrong result - you made your bed, no lie in it
2006-09-20 19:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty tough. Trust is earned and the only way to earn it is to let him see that you are reliable and trustworthy. The problem is, you see, that the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.
2006-09-20 19:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to earn it !
That can take a long time !
2006-09-20 19:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋