I am 26 years old and pretty happy in my life except for one thing...I need to get laid! I am not trying to crass, but I don't want to have to be someone's girlfriend just to get some. I think that if I can just get it once in a while I will be satisfied. What should I do? I am not a skank or anything, I just have a healthy appetite and have to do something about it soon....taking care of myself won't cut it either....
2006-09-20 12:15:09 · 24 answers · asked by BoMbS_aWaY 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I just moved to a new area so I don't really know anybody very well....
2006-09-20 12:52:49 · update #1
Go out there and make contact with some [nice] guys, the more the better but one by one if you know what I mean.You would be surprised how many 26 year old males have not had the oppuortunity you offer. So you can go for a good quality partner.
I'm afraid human nature being what it is getting laid comes with SOME kind of commitment, even if you are happy not to provide it. Without meaning to be in any way crude have you thought about prostitution, even on a small and elegant scale? You can get laid and get paid?
I know judgemental people will tear both of us apart but bollox to them. You seem very sensible and organised in your life and I think your question is tasteful and very well put.
Oh! Sorry I am not available myself for various reasons one of which is commitment!
2006-09-20 12:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by SouthOckendon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you're a skank. You are a healthy and honest woman.
Back in my days, the bar scene was the answer. But I'd never do that now. There's too many incureable STDs out there, now (herpes, AIDS, etc). Do you have any male acquaintances that you'd consider? Are they clean? Etc? If so, why don't you approach them? Let them know you're as normal as they, and have to deal with life's urges. Make sure you tell them that it is what it is. No commitments. Just close companionship and pleasure.
One more thing, I wouldn't recommend an affair with a married guy.
2006-09-20 19:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try phone sex. You're still doing it yourself but it's totally different having a man on the line telling you what he would do to you.
Ask some of your friends if they know any single guys who aren't looking for relationships. Guys just want sex and since that's what your looking for you shouldn't have a problem finding it. Just because you have sex with out dating someone doesn't make you a slut, especially if it's always with the same guy. Find someone you're attracted to and go from there.
2006-09-20 19:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try adultfriendfinder.com- it's a site for people from all over to find discreet relations of the kind you are interested in. Most young single men and women get lonely and horny. People of all walks of life use this site as a safe forum for expressing exactly what they are looking for, uncensored.
2006-09-20 21:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by Hauntedfox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're in thew same boat. I myself never been laid but i too want a healthy relationship with someone i love.
anywho, i think the best thing is to socialize with people. If you go to school, start up a personal club. Or talk to people.
I myself want to go to community college to meet people as well as move ahead on life.
2006-09-20 19:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by mystic_lonewolf22 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
atleast you admit it. Ok you're not a skank. Go out be flirty dirty and get you some, i thought it was obvious. Why are you asking like you don't know- you know what to do- you just want to find out other ridiculous methods right?
2006-09-20 19:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by antagonist 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are many men just willing to be you *fix it man*. The thing is... you need to trust him as you are allowing him access to your body. So the same interview that goes with a relationship must apply. It is actually easier to get into than a standard relationship.
There are sites made for it too.
2006-09-20 19:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by Persephone 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you think the urge is bad now, wait till you reach the dirty thirties.....and you dont have to be in a relationship to do it, just make sure the other person knows that youre only interested in sex, so you dont end up with a stalker
2006-09-20 19:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by Aussieblonde -bundy'd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of complications to your idea. They may seem trivial and unlikely now, but when something unfortunate happens, it will be too late. Think about it carefully. The scenario you think least likely to happen may be the one you face.
2006-09-20 19:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That depends on a few things but if you're interested in a serious answer from a 24yr old man, you can message me and I'll tell you how best to do it in a safe, feel-good, honest way. SDPsylock@yahoo
2006-09-20 19:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by CluefulinSD 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋