my bf, and i are really good, but i think im starting to like this other guy, who is one of my bf's friends. and her likes me too.. but i dont know if i should break up with my bf, and go out with this other guy i like.. i mean i love my bf.. but idk what to do.. please help me! ♥♥♥
2006-09-20 12:14:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you have a really good relationship with your boyfriend then stay with him
2006-09-20 12:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by sharon b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people might say "If you loved your bf, you wouldn't date his best friend."
I wouldn't condone doing that, either. However, in my opinion, if you really love your bf, you might want to take some time for yourself to really think about what you want. Do you love your bf so much that you can't imagine dating anyone else at the moment? Why do you have feelings for his best friend? Take as much time for yourself to think about these questions, along with others that might pop up. It doesn't hurt anyone (and probably saves a lot of hurt and/or dishonesty in the end) to reflect on things for a while. Write your thoughts down if you have to.
After you think you've come up with a pretty solid answer as to what you really want, then you might try being honest with your boyfriend. If you decide that you'd rather date his best friend, then the best possible thing you can do is be up front about it. It doesn't help anyone to lie about your feelings (or lack thereof, if that's the case). He may never speak to you (or his best friend) again, but honesty really is the best policy--hurtful, sure, but better than keeping him in the dark (and possibly even cheating on him if it got to that point, which would be far worse.)
It's a sticky situation, but you can't always help who you develop feelings for...even if it is your boyfriend's best friend. Again, I would NEVER condone going behind anyone's back, esp. with their best friend. Put everything out in the open after careful consideration of all sides and possibilities.
Figure out what you want and be honest about it. I hope that helps and good luck! =)
2006-09-20 19:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by zengirl28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to have sex with him... If it's better then dump your BF and start a new relationship with great sex!
2006-09-20 19:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by db 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, break up with your bf if you're not happy being with him. and don't date his friend. you don't want to be called a slut around your school. trust me, rumors will fly.
2006-09-20 19:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are tempted by that mystery meat but how would you feel if your boyfriend was scheming on some other chick...?...are you ready to face circumstances for creeping?...think about what you will lose if you get caught...be grateful for what you got because you don't know what you got until it's gone.
2006-09-20 19:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by D.E.O.N. Sphinxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-20 19:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by cityhopess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋