has anyone noticed how there are more girls asking guys out than ever before? does it seem like you wont get a date if you dont act? i believe guys are getting accustomed to this and not asking girls because of it. i personaly dont like it and dont know what to do. just want your opinions
2006-09-20 12:05:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I've found that if a girl intitiates the date more often that the guy is aware of. Sure, he did the asking... but wasn't even aware how many positive, encouraging signals she gave him... how she engineered the conversation around to give him the perfect opportunity to ask her out... how it was, in fact, all her idea. ;) Silly boys, thinking they do all the work. I think the actions of women, whether subtle or obvious, are a lot more prevalent than they get credit for.
That being said, yes, personally, I do prefer that the man make the commitment of actually asking me out. It shows both courage and a sincere interest in me. But if I like him, I will certainly make the asking very easy.
2006-09-20 12:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm old fashioned...I think guys should ask the girls out, but good on the girls who feel confident enough to do so. Girls just need to make the guys feel confident enough to come over and ask them out.... it's called flirting.... although this seems to be a dying art!
2006-09-20 21:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by Breeze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says guys always have to ask girls out? It's not their responsibility. If you want something you should go for it, and not just sit around moping and waiting for some guy to sweep you off your feet. It's equality for women, and I am glad that we are starting to eliminate traditional gender roles.
2006-09-20 12:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by a_soft_world 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is guys that ask out girls, who are old fashioned. There is more shy guys now then ever i think.
2006-09-20 12:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by PROLADY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like it either. They should be the ones asking us girls out. Its been like that for ages and it should stay that way. Guys always asks girls out.
2006-09-20 12:10:36 · answer #5 · answered by ♥**Me**♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys don't have to be guys anymore if girls do the asking.
2006-09-20 12:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like it then don't participate in it. Instead, sit back and wait until some crawls to precious you on hand and foot to ask you for a date.
2006-09-20 12:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by Belie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, how can gay guys get together if the
guy doesn't ask the other guy out??
2006-09-20 12:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋