ok... so up till i was in 5th grade i went to an all girls skool. thn for the past 2 yrs ive been 2 3 diff skools. i nv went on a d8 or kissed a guy. im in a new skool now n i made new friends but i found that some of them already kissed a guy some went over. i dont wanna kiss a guy just yet but....im completely comfused in the catholic church, going further thn kissing is a sin n u go to hell...ugh im completely confused >.<
but the way im in 8th grade
2006-09-20 12:03:44 · 7 answers · asked by angelpinkgal 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol i think my grammer is pretty good, i get B's...
2006-09-20 12:11:40 · update #1
Oh you poor child. No kissing is not a sin, but it puts you in a position that a sin may be committed by other things that you may do or thinkbecause of it.Anyways, grade 8 is not the time to be worrying about this kind of thing. All adults eventually find a soulmate and then there is plenty of time to kiss and be intimate. then it will be even more precious and special because noone but that person will ever know you in that special way. It is a precious part of who you are don`t give it away to just do what you think others expect from you. Staying pure till marriage isn`t easy but it is sure worth it.
2006-09-20 12:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by Therapist King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You won't go to hell. Are they still teaching that? My goodness.
If you kiss a guy that is fine, but going further than that like petting, sex, can get you pregnant, or worse a disease from the other guy, and are you ready for an unwanted baby and all the cost. That in itself can be a hell. WHen someone says it's a sin, ask them to go into detail.
That is ignorant to say you will go to hell because there is always confession, and God does forgive and is kind and merciful.
2006-09-20 19:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by DREENA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, your religion is very important to you, but if you are ready, you will do what you think is right, and no one else can decide that for you. And anyway you are still to young to have sex, in my opinion, but just because someone else does something, doesnt mean you have to. But dont judge the others that are the same age as you, that have gone all the way, they made there decision and you cant do anything about it.
2006-09-20 19:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by traveling_soldier6784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'r too young to be kissing and going all the way. The first thing I do is get better on my grammar.
i is I.
skool is school. thn is then.
diff is different.
wanna is want to.
n, and
u, you
And you'r in the eight grade??
2006-09-20 19:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by alfonso 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there will be lots of time for that.
Honestly stop worrying about it, it is too silly. I am catholic also, but religion aside, when YOU feel you are ready then you need to decide when you should do.... for right now you said yourself you didn't want to, there is NO reason to do it for the sake of doing it....wait until you are ready, there is no shame in that =)
best of luck
2006-09-20 19:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ goddessofraine ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got my first kiss in 7th grade and trust me it wasn't that great...
2006-09-20 19:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know I'm not one
2006-09-20 19:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋