I have this guy and we r "friends" ....so one night we pretty much did eveything but have sex...then that monday at school ALL his friends where tellin me that they heard we had sex....i asked him that day y did he tell ppl that...he said he would never tell people that...so i believed him...BIG mistake...so that next friday night we hung out again....samething happened that next Monday....so now i was PISSED.....I asked him what was he thinking...again he didnt no who said it but it wasnt him....We havent talked in a week....I still have feelings for him and i no he has them for me but... he just got a girlfriend and that hurts.....what should i do....?
2006-09-20 12:01:17 · 35 answers · asked by MD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start talking on Monday ;)
2006-09-20 12:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think very few couples after this length of time together can say their sex life is as good as it used to be. Why? Well lets see............there are 3 kids now, she is older now, she is probably going through some hormonal changes, and last but not least, she is probably simply tired. You need to take her away for a week. Go on a romantic vacation, where she can just be a "wife" and relax and have fun. This could be the jump start she needs. She is still having sex with you fairly regularly, so it isn't that she doesn't want to please you, or she is bored with "you", she just needs to re-discover herself again. She needs to feel sexy again. Also, don't forget to tell her how beautiful she is to you, and how much you desire her and love her. We all get too comfortable with our mates, and forget that all those special things we heard at the beginning, we still want to hear. Hope this helps. : ))
2016-03-26 23:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. He was probably tryin' to brag to everyone about what you guys "so called" did but twisted the truth a lil bit. He sounds like he was not telling the truth. Unless someone was spying...who else would know?!? I know your young and all but...think...COMMON SENSE! It's not that hard. There's plenty of boys out there. Don't bring yourself down. Let time do its job...
2006-09-20 12:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by T_Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. He's a jerk. Do you really want to be with a guy who tells everybody everytime you two hook up? That's not how guys who care about you behave.
Plus he got another gf in a week. That's bogus.
Let him go and live and learn.
2006-09-20 12:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by virgogirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cmon Mary he sounds like a moron if you ask me. Of course he told his friends you had sex with him. He wants to look important to them. I wouldnt even waste my time worrying about him...or ever talking to him again. He used you is all....he got a girlfriend now..so its obvious he didnt care about you at all...If he did he wouldnt have told those lies to his friends in the first place. Find a guy whos going to respect you!
2006-09-20 12:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably told his best buddy who then told everyone. But here is the real question. Why would you want him back if he did all that with you, basically used you, and then got a different GF. My advice to you is to find a new boyfriend and ignore this jerk for the rest of your life.
2006-09-20 12:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on. if he's kissing and telling, you don't need that. He has a girlfriend now, so either be happy with who you are and you just might meet a really nice guy. If he is telling people all of that, then just move on. You don't need the extra drama
2006-09-20 12:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this guy is not a friend and you have been taken for a ride unfortunately. you need to stop talking to this boy and try to deal with the rumours. learn a lesson from this a very valuable one. mine would be that guys lie to get what they want sexually. hang out with your girlfriends for a while. it will get better and easier but this guy is a loser. leave him alone. good luck.
2006-09-20 12:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn your lesson. If you and he were the only ones who knew what you guys were up to then the obvious answer is he did talk to people. Move on having learned that it is best not to have these kind of dates.
2006-09-20 12:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by Therapist King 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg forget about his dumb butt. He is a bastard! For all that he has done to you, he don't like you hun and you have to accept that. Move on it's all you can do, do you wanna be stuck w/ a loser that brags about his sex life , he seems also liek the type that would cheat on you..
back off gf he is a loser fo sho.
2006-09-20 12:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by sarajanes86 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋