she is 18 i am 16 , i have made it clear i dont intend to have sex with her for two reasons the age thing and i dont want to f**k up our relationship..she looks great so that isnt it....
she is going to want sex or something someday...so would all the foreplay and toys make it up in the least bit....is that wierd i have no problem with touching and all the other stuff but im not going to get into the fluid exhange stuff.....im only asking so she doesnt get uncomfortable whe we talk about it....touching massaging fingering vibrators and all that stuff is fine ill play with her....
advice....girls could you even consider being with a guy under those circumstances?
2006-09-20 11:53:39 · 18 answers · asked by The Question Man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well why we i bust her for stat rape?
and the laws cant go for me she is the one over 18
2006-09-20 11:58:21 · update #1
for the girl at the bottom....im 16 shes 18 id love to have sex with her but stat rape laws and stuff....
2006-09-20 12:04:34 · update #2
Yes i would under those circumstances. i think that its the right thing to do so you can also get to know eachother and explore i mean you dont havve to have sex to be intimate. Its just as good and satisfying the way your planning on doing it!
2006-09-20 11:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand. You will be having sex with her, just not putting your penis in her. I don't get it. I am not trying to be a jerk, but I figure if you are going to go as far as toys and stuff, why not buy some condoms and have intercourse too? If using a vibrator on her doesn't mess up your relationship, then neither will intercourse. As for the age arguement...wtf dude? You are old enough to "play" with her naked squirming body but not old enough to have intercourse? This question makes absolutely no sense to me unless there is some missing information here that makes you reluctant to get naked with her.
2006-09-20 12:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...someday she will want to have sex,and why don`t you want to have it with her?I can`t understand it.
yes I love massaging,fingering,vibrators and all that stuff...but i also want sex...
yes I could be with a guy like you,but after some time I`d like something more...if you can if not...then I can do the massaging and things with the vibrator alone aswell...
2006-09-20 12:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by donatella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any sexual act with a minor would technically be illegal, and could theoretically land her in jail - whether or not "fluid exchange" was involved. If this is not part of your concern, I don't really understand what is. It would f*ck up your relationship more with you being a dork and forcing your crippled sex ideas on her. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with choosing not to engage in sexual acts - but foreplay IS a sexual act. Duh. Sounds like you're not old enough to be in a relationship at all.
2006-09-20 12:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy Ego 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well sweeite... if ur willin to do that...
then i see no reason why not to go all the way..
yes..there is a age diff. but if ur parents dont press charges..
then its fine....
so u feel uncomfy with the fluid exchange? umm
then maybe ur just not ready for that..
which in that case...
its ok... just let her know.
that u need some time
2006-09-20 11:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by LonelyChica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she being an adult and u being under age is not a good combination stay dating until youir at least 17 so u wont get her into trouble of any kind good luck
2006-09-20 11:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by lcox65 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would work for me. It sounds like that you have thought this out and you are trying to do the right thing. Have fun.
2006-09-20 11:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with that.if youre uncomfortable with that, then let her know.you shouldnt be uncomfortable with a person that you like.she should respect your thoughts on the subject.and if not,then leave her ***.
2006-09-20 11:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
heh, my bf was 17 and i was 18 1/2, i stole his virginity..and nobody knew.
2006-09-20 11:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by sarajanes86 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like a guy who respects me, and i know our relationship can survive without the sex thing; we can wait.
2006-09-20 11:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by DJ Alex 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋