I hate my sister...she loves to come in my room and throw away my stuff. Once, she threw my report card into the garbage!! She's like no ordinary human cause basically she doesn't care what you say and I'm really piss cause she just threw away my cleanser!!
2006-09-20 11:46:50 · 5 answers · asked by Neutro 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First calm down- it is after all only stuff and replacable.
If you can't bring this to your parents attention which I'm guessing you can't because when you do it's hysterical yelling and crying or they just want peace and ignore you for awhile and you give up. I say those things because I'm guilty of them sometimes with my preteen who can drive me crazy with drama.
You need to calmly and when your mother or father has time to talk bring up this issue. Ask mom or dad if you can talk to them about something that is bothering you. If they say not now ask when would be a good time and stress you really want to talk without being too insistent. Then when you can say something along these lines. "I don't want to make trouble but XYZ has been coming into my room without my permission and throwing things away I consider important." Then STOP wait for them to respond often kids rush through things and parents don't get to talk. They will ask like what so be prepared with a list of things that ARE important, broken things, papers etc may not seem relevant but a report card, Products that cost money etc are since they cost yoru parents money. Explain you are concerned because replacing them is expensive and you would just like them to speak to her to respect your space. Be prepared to defend yourself calmly if they point out things you have done to her and offer to respect her space and refrain from fighting. Point out you wanted to talk to them because you felt speaking to her would only cause a fight and you didn't want to be disruptive.
Hopefully the advice for talking to mom and dad will work. Short of getting permission for a lock and key you may be stuck with sis getting into your stuff.
You could try hiding your things or retalition but it rarely works out and well siblings drive each other nuts it is just life. My sister's still manage to do it and we are all grown and married.
2006-09-20 11:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Answerkeeper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try telling your parents. It would probably make you feel better to throw away some of her stuff but the logical thing is next time she throws something away, try to act like you don't care. She's just doing it just to get you mad and be the center of attention. Me and my sister used to be like that but as we got older we stopped fighting. I know you hate your sister now but give it a couple of years and you'll end up pretty good friends.
2006-09-20 11:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents what is happening. It is their responsibility to handle this situation. If they don't, put a lock on your room with 2 keys. Yours and your parents!
2006-09-20 11:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where are your parents at when she is doing these things to you? If they aren't home you need to talk to them when they come home. You sister is way out of line and you need to tell your parents.
2006-09-20 12:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by Janet lw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BUZZZZZ
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2006-09-20 12:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋